Anyone else have a shit eating grin wearing, pot stirring, drama causing, barf inducing BM that needs to start crap just before every visit? We are still in and out of court with reviews and modifications etc. So DH does view her any social media pages because she writes super crazy shit and then takes it down. So today I guess she was on Facebook whinning about sending kids to school and not seeing them again til Sunday night whine whine snort cry fart. She was getting lots of attention from fools that feed into this crap too, like her fat aunt "They still have to go with those assholes? I thought you said they were not allowed to see the kids any more?" What the hell? And she was mooing all over instagram a selfie with her and SD looking sad "my baby girls face when I tell her she has to go with her dad "
Poor DH! He knows her family is trash and some of them have disowned her over the years, one day I will tell you a good BM story about a wedding they attended and how she acted a fool. Most likely I will have to pick up kids for DH and feed them which is ok, then when he gets home I will go to work and he will stay here with all the kids and I just get so so so so sick of BM2 and her bullshit. Just be a grown up please! Do not say anything weird, dont bother with DH, stop calling all day to talk to kids and let them all just be! But no, she will call to speak to kids as soon as school is over and be denied which will start a thousand emails and allegations that will be ignored. Then at bed time when she is permitted to talk to kids she will get them all worked up over stupid shit. "I am taking your cousins to our house to sleep over they really want you to come home ask dad if you can come home! Oh my God! He wont let you? He is so terrible! I am so sorry you are stuck over there with him!" It never ends! Yes DH mostly ignores and when it comes to acting a fool in front of kids she goes there he does not! But he is human and has feelings and gets all pissed off when she fires off ludicrous statements about kids being mistreated, starved, ignored, screamed at etc.
Then will be the nonsense she has programmed kids to say to DH myself and my DD all weekend. "DD my mom watched your dance program online, she said it was not good. My mom says DD is a baby and brat. My mom says dad needs to get me and Ipad because DD got one from her dad. My mom says she sent food in my purse for me and SS since you dont feed us good etc etc etc etc"
Then there is poor SS who is always left out of everything at BM2s! She and SD are always doing "girl stuff" so DH wants to dote on him more when he is here which is fine but then that leaves me and SD to interact with my DD and its a a really shitty setting for everyone lately. I have been working more which helps. I also been letting my DD go to friends houses to give her a break from listening to SD and her crazy stories. So basically I let my DD disengage from SD and I mostly do as well. She is just getting creepier and ruder honestly. She is so spoiled by her mother and there is not really a way to combat that in the time we have. So I just stay polite to her and but I don't do much as far as bonding anymore. At the bar/bistro I work out I have a college girl that watches kids for money when not at work with us. She has offered to come hang out with SD for a bit of cash if I need a break. DH can call her and pay her if it comes to it this weekend. My dd will be busy with activities and friends.