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Ruby55's picture

Ok, so you guys know I have 2 awful skids. SS 26 is a rotten, angry, lazy creep! DH and I have been having problems lately and I threw him out a few weeks ago for his attitude. Let him come back and work on things, not ready to divorce and I'd end up supporting him due to his illness. Not ready to part with my hard earned savings yet.....Things have been better. We're communicating better, etc. Ok, so.......SS had stolen $4600 from us while DH very sick , in coma, in hospital. Stole debit card and made 26 withdrawals. Sick right? We forgave him contingent on money being laid back in installments. He made a few payments, got nasty and I was done! Still owes over half the money. Complete disengagement on my part and he is now allowed in my house ever again. I don't even want to hear his name! I despise the POS for taking advantage of us while we were so vulnerable. He's a true dirtbag. DH sees him infrequently, SS could care less about his dad obviously. Just uses him when he wants something and has played emotional blackmail with his father for as long as I've known him which is 14 years.

He's been kicked out of the military, quit every job he's had because he doesn't want to be told what to do. But.... he is a talented artist. Well, recently I guess he did a few paintings that he has sold (still no payment to us). Oh, did I mention he's also taken a nice vacation with his boyfriend!!! So......I have no interest in him or his art or anything regarding him whatsoever. DH knows this and doesn't bring up SS except to comment on his horrific behavior once in awhile. Well, he must've seen him he other day because he comes in and tells me he got some prints of his latest paintings and where do I went to hang them!!!!!! is he insane? I told him the only place he could put his POS of a son's paintings is right up his ass!!!!! He backed off immediately saying he didn't realize I'd get angry. What world does DH live in that he thinks I'd want that kids crap on my walls. I told DH if he wants to look at that crap, go buy his own house, but never will it be welcome here! so many of these skids are awful but the DH are no better half the time! My parents were divorced and my Dad, who DID cause the divorce due to an affair and he ended up marrying her....still, he never acted like a groveling sap with the 4 of us kids. He was a good, loving and generous father but expected the same in return. Neither of my parents operated from guilt and I am so much better for it!! Wake up DH's, and stand up for your WIVES not your ignorant ADULT spawn !

ChokinOnLemonz's picture

Ok...I know your skid is an ultimate shit head.

But on some level...that shithead giving him the printing of his art is STILL the same five year old presenting finger paint paintings from kindergarten to your husband. If that makes any sense? It's a different experience and perspective from the bio parent to the shithead.

Just trying offer this from your spouses point of view as to why after all of this, he'd still be excited to hang Shitheads art up.

Ruby55's picture

Yes, I get that but to be so stupid as to ask where I want to hang it! Also, I too am CERTAIN he paid for them! The kid had a showing at an art show recently and didn't even invite his dad. My DH deserves what he gets from these monsters because he tolerates it, even rewards it. I'm so glad I disengaged!!

Ruby55's picture

Unfortunately it ends up costing me mobley when I kick him out, horrible situation!