Insecurity?
Do any of your guys DH or BF's have a hot BM? So dumb but I know I am attractive but I honestly get a little insecure around her? We look totally opposite of one another. (Tall blonde, light complexed, and I am short brunette) She is not a threat to our relationship and is married and is super nice to me but still… What do you guys think?
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I think so too! Good for you,
I think so too! Good for you, and completely agree with your signature
BM wears a ton of makeup, works at a place where the uniform is shorts and a tank top and known for big breasts… lol
hooters
hooters
Bm is 300 lbs, so I'm not
Bm is 300 lbs, so I'm not insecure about that. Sometimes I am insecure just because dh loved this person once.
exactly! Just knowing that
exactly! Just knowing that they were in love and he had proposed to her makes me ugh! She's a hugger to so she hugs everyone hi and bye as does her family and today she gave him a side hug and then hugged me and it annoyed me
The BM in my case may be well
The BM in my case may be well put together and decent looking on the outside...but on the inside she's the total opposite so no she doesn't make me feel insecure..
thats great! BM is nice too
thats great! BM is nice too but annoying and irresponsible so I guess not so great on the inside either. I need to stop feeling like this!
awe thank you! I have a great
awe thank you! I have a great man and she missed out on him. I just need to learn to accept that they are in the past and me and him are together now and I have him like you said
BM is 2 years younger than me
BM is 2 years younger than me and is just not the smartest tool in the shed. She is not beautiful either.
The only thing I ever question is why the fuck did hubby get with her?????? He is smart, athletic, handsome and kind.
She is a genuine nut case.
He and I dated years back and according to him, I was the love of his life. His third girlfriend after me was this nut case. So sad. Now they have a kid together and I am stuck raising her. Sigh......
But no, I have zero insecurity in regards to her.
None what so ever when it
None what so ever when it comes to BM. She is cheap, nasty, really looks like Jabba the Hut, doesn't bath/ shower regularly, has greasy hair and sagging implants. Her bottom lip and front teeth have wine stains all the time. Refuses to work and claims she is too sick. Takes enough anti depressants and other medication to keep 90% of ST high as kites. A terrible housekeeper, She is the same age as me but looks older than I do. I actually have NO idea what H2 did so wrong in life he is with her. He's actually not a bad guy. Good earner, not bad looking (not my taste though), nice accent and treats her kids (SS and her 1st born) really well.
Our BM's refrain is "Just go
Our BM's refrain is "Just go away already but keep giving me money"
lol um NO. dumbass is a
lol um NO. dumbass is a meth-addled whorebag. the night we met, dh told me in awe "u're *not* stupid!" (as opposed to any other woman he's ever dealt with, dumbass included).
oh and i'm tall. ask draco, apparently that helps in life.
I always feel like an idiot
I always feel like an idiot when I say this, but I feel insecure not because BM is attractive (she has a BAD case of Angry Resting Face) or because she's less fat, or because she's younger, but because she got to experience things with DH that I never will. She'll always be mother to his children, and I never will. It makes me sad that we'll never have that to share, and even if we did (which we can't, so it doesn't matter), it wouldn't be the same because he's already done that with her.
DD's BD is a complete jerk who made pregnancy harder than it needed to be, and I had a horrible delivery and recuperation period. Other than DD, I literally have no even vaguely nice memories of the process. I hate that. And I hate that he has nice memories with her.
Plus now I have to deal with her BS and the BS of the skids, as insult to injury.
Thank you. I know you're
Thank you. I know you're right, especially about the bitterness and venom.
Working on the changing attitude... If I survive this weekend, of course! LOL
Thank you so much for your
Thank you so much for your feedback!:)
Don't feel like an idiot! Its
Don't feel like an idiot! Its annoying that he had proposed to her and they lived together and had a kid together while I am still waiting for him to propose to me…. I know he wants to take his time and do things the right way this time but it still sucks thinking like that.
We just need to remember that we are their future now and we are making new amazing memories with them now
physically, bm is about 50
physically, bm is about 50 lbs thinner than me and younger (9 years), and has long dark hair, and knowing how men are so visual, I also feel insecure. what makes me feel better is she has a manly face and looks older than because of her drug abuse. BUT I have been working out and on track to lose 25 to 30 lbs. AND I have a pretty face, something she will NEVER have. financially/emotionally, so can't begin to compare. I can rationalize all I want, but until I get this friggin weight off me, I won't feel better.
oh yeah! she has false
oh yeah! she has false teeth, too! bet she REALLY looks bad without them!
Don't feel bad! you are
Don't feel bad! you are amazing and you are working on yourself. Do things that make you feel better. Your loved one loves YOU.
I also could lose a few pounds but my BF loves how I look now and says he loves my thick legs and booty while she is a tall twig with two melons on her chest lol
We are amazing!
yep. My partner's ex wife
yep. My partner's ex wife used to be 260 lbs but she got on adipex and got giant fake boobs and went to beauty school and she's very pretty when she's in full make up. She is crazy as hell though.
DH always says look at the
DH always says look at the most beautiful woman in the world and there is a man who is tired of her BS.
BM is 11 years younger than I am, DH is 8 years younger than I am. BM is a horrible person and it shows on her face. She is all lined and haggard. BM didn't finish high school. Hasn't worked anything beyond a very part time job in retail since becoming an adult. BM is not fiscally responsible.
DH told me that what attracted him to me was the whole package. I was a professional, who took pride in how she looked, who had her shit together, paid the bills, lived simply and could carry on an intelligent conversation. My incredible eyes and smile didn't hurt either. LOL
This is the biggest factor, DH trusts me completely and supports him in every way.
Ha No. BM and I are complete
Ha No.
BM and I are complete opposites in every single way.
Even if she was pretty, she is still nasty on the inside, where it most counts.
But no I'm not insecure in any way by her looks. Zip. Zero. No. Nada. Nein.
No... the seahag is almost 10
No... the seahag is almost 10 years older than I am...chubby and her face is like a constant "duck face" pose... It's unfortunate. I have gotten insecure about her in that she holds their daughter over my SO's head so that he'll jump when she says and he's too afraid that she'll take their daughter away to say no. So...I guess my insecurity is that he'll always choose making her "happy" over being honest and up front with me. The girls my SO was with after he and I broke up are very attractive and young, but they turned out to be crazier than the seahag...so who knows. He's not worth the amount of self-loathing I take into the shower some days.