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Yuck found pics of bm2 in my house

Starryeyed's picture

Submitted by Starryeyed on Fri, 03/27/2015 - 4:39pm

Ok so I don't think dh is intentionally holding on to these pics but I'm in two minds as to what to do with them.

When dh first started dating I came across pics of dh and bm2 in bed kissing. I was actually scarred from looking at these pics and dh disposed of them immediately. Dh and bm do not have a cordial relationship after she left him while she was pregnant. Anyway I was having a clear out today and came across two pictures o had never seen before , one of bm and her friend posing slutily for the camera and the second of dh and bm looking like love birds in a pic. Now I don't believe he is holding on to them for any particular reason and I would say he prob doesn't even know they are there. I thought about tossing them but I wouldnworry he'd come across them in the trash. Yuck. Scarred again from seeing that pic because she is the only person in the world I think I genuinely dislike. Bm1 and I are very civil in fact.

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Snowflake's picture

Submitted by Snowflake on Fri, 03/27/2015 - 4:49pm

I would rip them up and then flush them down the toilet. Problem solved. I have. I would be angry if dh ever said anything.

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Submitted by Glassslipper on Fri, 03/27/2015 - 4:58pm

DH has an album from when BM and him were dating era, it has photos of her in it. And him and his friends, its just photos from those years.
He has some of the wedding photo proofs in a box somewhere.

I have photos form when me and ex were dating era, parties with friends and were both standing there, DD has our wedding album because she found it.

I never threw anything except my wedding album in the trash, and DD found it and pulled it out.
I guess it doesn't bother me that the photos are in the house, its his past, oh well.

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Submitted by Starryeyed on Fri, 03/27/2015 - 5:08pm

There are pics of other exes there, even bm1 when ss was a baby. They don't bother me, they are stored away out of view. It's just this awful woman's face in particular after all she's put us through.

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Submitted by momandmore on Fri, 03/27/2015 - 5:27pm

I found some in some really cheap frames, the glass was gone.. They were behind other pics in the same frame. I gave them to DH, he tossed them. I found some after that, I just tossed them.
If they don't include the kids, no need to keep them.

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Submitted by katielee on Fri, 03/27/2015 - 5:38pm

ANY pics I find in MY home of BM go straight in the trash. I don't care who sees, but I do tear them up in case somebody thinks they should come out of the trash. This is MY home and I shouldn't have to see her ugly face popping up anywhere.

No Name's picture

Submitted by No Name on Fri, 03/27/2015 - 6:17pm

The only pictures DH has of his ex are of their wedding and I can't throw them out because they do have kids together. Maybe the kids would like to have them some day. I have them in a bin in the attic. If they were just snap shots I would probably toss them. But here is the strange thing. His ex every once in a while will send him pictures from when they were together on his cell phone. I don't like that she is doing that and I don't understand exactly why she is doing it.

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Submitted by chupacabra on Sat, 03/28/2015 - 9:55am

If they have children together (which I assume they do since you are on STalk), why not just put them in a cheap photo album for your skids? Even though they are divorced, they had a life together that produced kids and those kids deserve to have pictures of their parents. Doesn't matter if BM and the skids are the skankiest, shittiest people on the planet....the skids still deserve to have their parents pics. If BM or skids decide to destroy them, that is up to them....not you.
Unless, of course, you're all about hurting BM and your skid's feelings...then I say cut 'em up in small pieces and leave them out for skids to find.