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OT- Tips for kids taking the bus home alone

zerostepdrama's picture

The plan is for BS to take the bus home from school next year. Most days I work from home, but some days I will be in the office and he will be home alone for a couple of hours.

He has taken a Home Alone class so he has the basics.

I have went over lots of different scenarios with him and have walked through any possible issues we may have.

I trust that all will be good once he is in the house. I can trust him that he will do his homework, watch tv, play on his DS until I get home.

Here are some of the things I plan on doing or have told him.

If I have missed anything or if anyone has anything to add I would appreciate it.

- tie the house key on a string inside his bookbag so he doesn't lose it.

- have him come right in, lock the door and call me as soon as he gets home.

-no distractions when getting off the bus and walking to the house (its literally less then a minute away). I want to make sure he doesnt have his face in a book or is talking to another kid. Get off the bus and walk straight home. Pay attention to surroundings.

- I am going to get him a cell phone. My thought is to keep it at the house and he can then use it to call me at work when he gets home. I didnt want him taking it to school and messing with it. (something new to him) But what if something happened and he couldnt get in the house (for whatever reason) and he didnt have a way to call me to let me know what is going on. I thought about letting him take it to school, ringer off, but then I dont know if he will remember to put the ringer on when he gets home. I am going to start him with a basic phone. I know the fancier phones you can turn on do not disturb except for certain numbers.

Anything else anyone can add. Thanks!

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zerostepdrama's picture

Yeah I have a feeling he will forget to call me... He's kind of absent minded.

A couple of times this year he was supposed to take the bus home but went to Latchkey instead. So I see the bus zoom by and I'm like WTF where is my kid? LOL Thankfully he was at Latchkey. I guess its better then the opposite, taking the bus home and he was supposed to be at Latchkey. Because as of right now he has no key or phone.

DaizyDuke's picture

YES! The damn house key was my biggest nemesis as a kid coming home alone after school. I would forget it or misplace it at least once a month and of course that was before cell phones, closest neighbors were about .10 of a mile away and worked anyway, so I would have to sit on the front porch and wait for mom to get home from work 2 hours later.... you'd think I would have learned after the first time... but nope.

If you can safely hide a key for him, I would do it. I was a responsible kid but even the most responsible kid still has mutant puberty brain from time to time Wink

BethAnne's picture

Maybe have a chat with a neighbour that is usually home around that time and ask them to keep an eye out for him and let him know that if he can't get into the house or has any problems he can go and see them. How old is your son? I started walking home from school "on my own" when I was about 10 or 11. What really happened is my mum asked a friends mum to watch me walk home, so I walked with them and then I was in the house on my own. I loved it, it made me feel very independent I bet your son will enjoy it too.

zerostepdrama's picture

He will be 10.

He's ready for the independence and I am ready to get him there Smile

I do plan on telling the one neighbor. She's an older lady and she is always home.

zerostepdrama's picture

Yeah I am thinking of hiding a key as well. I plan on taking a piece of yarn and tying it around the key then tying it in his bookbag. I have seen the bags with loops inside, for keys, etc.

AllySkoo's picture

I'd suggest using chain, like the bathroom drain plug chain (that steel beaded chain), instead of yarn. I know MY son is rough with stuff, and yarn would fray and snap at least once a week. I actually use one of those chains as my key ring and it holds up really well.

PokaDotty's picture

The only other thing we did was get each of our kids "safety whistles". The oldest is 16 now and I still make her take her safety whistle when going out for a run LOL