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Horrible step daughter

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Submitted by Maz100 on Sun, 02/15/2015 - 8:10am

I have been married to my husband for 11 years and his daughter has always caused us problems from day one trying to come between us she is now 36 year old and only wants to see her dad at her house or out for lunch or he can go up there for tea but she won't come to out house because she hates me she is jealous of me and is nasty to me all the time she says since I have been with her dad I have taken her away from her but she is nasty all time and for the last 2 years my husband has not even spoke to her because she is horrible but at Christmas he messaged her and started going to her house I'm not allowed to go she won't allow it I think he should tell her that if she can't accept us a team then she should stay out of our lives my husband agrees but I know he is upset about not seeing her should I just let him go and not say anything and allow him just to do it she has done some nasty and horrible things in the 11 years

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Submitted by No saint on Sun, 02/15/2015 - 8:27am

It's his daughter and I wouldn't "forbid" contact between them. If she doesn't visit you, even better! Why would it bother you if they go out for lunch or tea? As long as your DH doesn't allow her to be disrespectful towards you, I don't really see why it should.

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Submitted by JustAgirl42 on Sun, 02/15/2015 - 9:09am

I agree with the above comments, including the punctuation ones...lol.

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Submitted by Maz100 on Sun, 02/15/2015 - 9:44am

Thanks for the comments but she is only after one thing money money money that's is all she has taken from us and when she doesn't get it she causes problems and refuseses to talk to her dad again and tells him he can't see the grand children so we ll end up falling out and she has been in and out of our lives for the last 11 years because things don't fo the way she wants or doesn't get what she wants .... And now he has made contact again and she starts again been nasty

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Submitted by Maz100 on Sun, 02/15/2015 - 10:58am

Thanks for that ...... It makes sense I'm just not going to get stressed out about anymore to honest I have had enough your right .....our money is merged so I will put a few rules in place about it and just let him get on with it .....

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Submitted by Jsmom on Sun, 02/15/2015 - 10:34am

He can see her on his own. It is still his daughter. Let him do what he wants, she just can't come to your house. We have that rule here with my SD. Be grateful she is not causing any other problems.