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Okay...here's a BM rant...with a little BF mixed in.

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BM...that bitch is something else. She also has no money (because she chooses to work VERY LIMITED part time) but has had the money to be out and about the last week, all while still owing that big $67 for the collections bill I paid a MONTH AGO...that you know she'd pay PART of with her next paycheck...maybe she only gets paid quarterly?? Hmmmm, hadn't thought of that

Well OSS dropped his iPhone and the screen is smashed. He sends me a text (it still works just cracked as hell) "Hanging..I dropped my phone. The screen is cracked up. Really bad. I'm sorry!" along with a picture of the damage...and yes it IS bad. My response was the same as it was when my ODD broke her phone "Well that sucks. You don't have to apologize though. It's your phone. You know the deal, if you break it you have to get it fixed. So I'm sorry that happened, and I can help you find out where to get it fixed and how much you'll have to pay. At least it still works!"

So, DH sees that SS has texted me and starts texting SS. Tells SS hanging is looking into it. Not sure how much it will cost you. You have money in your savings right? Ss: Yeah, I mean I think so. I haven't spent anything and mom put all the money that I was earning working for mom's bf in to an account for me she said. DH: Well then when we find out you'll have to get your mom to bring you to get some out.

Now DH and I are pretty sure that BM's bf who lives and works a "farm" and I say that LOOSELY..either A-didn't actually pay SS a dime, just busted his ass off all summer doing manual labor for nothing, or B- Mom never started an account and has just used SS's money. Because SS does not know what bank it's at, has never seen a passbook, and has ABSOLUTELY NO CLUE how much money he made over the summer, because BM has never told him, even when asked.

So SS then texts DH: Mom said I can't take any money out. That's not what it's for.
DH: What IS it for? You earned it. You broke YOUR phone. YOU need to fix it.
SS: Apparently it's just to look at.
DH: Well how much is in there? It's probably going to cost you $100 or less to fix the screen.
SS: I don't know. I haven't actually ever gotten to even LOOK at it. I asked for the passbook she said no I don't need it and I don't need to know.

Well ladies and gents....who wants to bet with me that THERE IS NO ACCOUNT. SS HAS NO SAVINGS. SS WORKED FOR FREE ALL SUMMER THINKING HE WAS EARNING MONEY? See this is the second thing he has wanted to withdraw money for...reasonable reasons...and has not been allowed.

And now for the quick exH bitch.

He is doing his first court ordered therapy trip today. He requested lower CS and the judge said only if I agree to less money and ex has to take son every other time. I said yes I would agree to that. Take a large time and stress burden off of me. So he is on his way 200 miles round trip with my son, with a vehicle with no plates and no insurance. I'm hoping he gets there and back without me receiving a call from the State Troopers asking me to pick up my son because dad is in jail for driving a vehicle without insurance or valid license plates. Idiot.

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hangingbyathread6's picture

Lmao! Not at you...but at the DH to BM "SS has said you won't share the account info...."

You see the reason I find it so comical is that my DH has in fact spoken to her about the "account". She will not tell him where the account is. She will not tell him what's in there. She said, "I opened the account for him to put his money. I'm trying to teach him to save money! I'm trying to teach him to be responsible!" Again...LMFAO. Teach him to save and be responsible. Coming from the woman whose vehicle is falling apart and she complains constantly and how it's not fair that DH and I have two good vehicles and she has none and can't afford to fix it and DH should help her to fix it because she has to drive "OUR" children in it! Don't you want them safe? And the woman who fraudulently put med bills in my DH's name and that we had to pay for that she can't pay back. And whose cell was disconnected for a week and a half because she didn't pay Her bill. And the woman who was evicted out of three different rentals for non payment until she suckered the dumb as a rock bf to let her move in with him at the last evict notice. But yes...she IS responsible. So responsible the judge won't give her custody and told her he would be "harming the children and doing them a great disservice to change custody" three months ago during her most recent quest to get custody.

Oh the laughs.

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Kids won't put cases on them (like Otterbox, etc) because they aren't "cool". They were told up front at the time of receiving them in their hands that they are fully responsible for damage, loss etc by repair, replace on their own dime. The insurance would have maybe been a good idea...but I wouldn't have paid for it, nor paid for the repair fee, regardless of how low it is. I'm hoping they will take pride in their possessions and responsibility for the things they have. So....black screen (BD15) + shattered screen (SS15) = two teens rethinking this protective case thing because coming up with the money and parting with it pretty much sucks ass...

Yes that was a sigh of delight...maybe I am getting so where with them Smile

My biggest issue is that my SS worked all summer doing manual labor thinking he was getting paid (even though he necpver saw the money...and bf was paying him cash because basically this farm is odd jobs/services with a couple beef cattle and chickens around so bf doesn't make any money so he doesn't have to pay CS for his 16 yr old daughter...everything he does is for cash) and BM lying to him. He'll call her on the carpet at some point. And she will have to fess up. DH and I are not getting involved in it regarding BM. SS needs to pressure her and find out what the deal is...it's HIS money that HE earned so it's up to him to manage it, or find out details. He's going to be pretty passed at her when the truth comes out!