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so it's cancer and I was right.

Runaway's picture

And it turns out I was right all along. She admitted it. She's trying to split me and H up so he'll crawl back and take care of her. She's got surgery again Monday.

She figured if she made life hard enough for H and I that I'd take our children and she'd get him and her kids, her family.

Even the craziness with H's mother has blown out. She and H's dad were divorced years ago because she was screwing half the neighborhood while he was at work. Then abused H and his siblings as well. Well that was over years ago. Now she's trying to connect with her kids who want nothing to do with her because of all she's done... H included. It came to a head last week. She contacted FIL. She wants him back. So that's what this is about. H's mom wants FIL back and BM wants H back so they're working together with the kids to reunify their family- that THEY split. Talk about dysfunction. H and FIL are hip to the crazy, but wow... so that's what this whole last year was about.

What a thing to be right about...

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Runaway's picture

I had told him that was my suspicion over a year ago. He scoffed. He's not scoffing anymore. He's mortified.

FIL is HANDLING his ex wife. He is pretty hip to her pattern. He holds no illusions.

H is totally disgusted. Doesn't like admitting I was right though. lol

Yes cancer in the thyroid at least. So she has to have the rest of that out and they aren't sure if there's more or not. I can't help hoping it takes her out. After everything she's done... So many wonderful people have fallen to this awful disease- it's about time it takes someone like her out.

Somuchdrama's picture

I would love if the BM in our situation died. The only thing I couldn't deal with is that the kids would make her a martyr as soon as she hit the dirt. I don't think I could handle all the "My mom was so great" bs.

kathc's picture

That and you'd get stuck with them full time. That is the only reason I pray for BM to have good health.

Runaway's picture

Honestly, she's the black cloud over our life. She starts and encourages all the crazy. If she was gone, I estimate it would take about a year (if that) to get everybody back to normal. Then they'd be just like normal kids.

Runaway's picture

it IS. It's been made clear to all of them that even if H and I DID split- they got us close last year... Mommy and daddy are NOT getting back together. H would grovel back to me or ANY other woman over BM.

Interestingly enough, if BM does croak H's mother will be totally cut off. So that's not gonna work out for her.

Somuchdrama's picture

As weird as it sounds sometimes I'm glad BM has put us through so much. When she began her campaign against our marriage it actually made us closer in some ways, we had the "band together to defeat evil" mentality. Plus we had so much drama thrown our way we never had those little fights over the stupid things (dishes or leaving the seat up, e.c.t.). And I am 100 percent sure even if we would ever split, thanks to all her crap, he would NEVER return to her!