dh in a dream world

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today dh dropped bomb on me. family next door moved out and now dh wants to buy the condo unit and have sd and boyfriend move in. they are not even engaged and dh is having fantasies about grand kids.

when skids were small children and making life hell for me dh told me that after skids grew up it would just be him and me.

and now this. i could scream.

When we see a house for sale

When we see a house for sale near us, my DH jokes about buying it for my SD23. I know he's joking, he doesn't have the money for that, but I let him know in no uncertain terms, that that will never happen. Not even if we win the lottery.

He knows that my SD would never maintain a house or be able to pay the taxes, anyway. To be honest, I'm not sure he would want her that close to us, either.

I mean, what a nightmare. My SD is completely helpless. She never listened to any advice my DH gave her about becoming independent and BM did everything she could to keep SD dependent on HER. SD living in close proximity would be hell (I could not imagine right next door). Not to mention, it would draw BM over this way. No, thanks.

Shut this down!

dh has this happy dance look

dh has this happy dance look on his face when he talks about how wonderful it would be to have sd live next to us! and then goes on about grandchildren etc. i wanted to wipe that silly smile off his face with a dose of reality.

and then he has the balls to complain how miserable i am all the time. how come he never used his balls to defend me when the skids were growing up?

i have a home business with a home office and i can see the skids easily dropping their child off for convenient baby sitting since i am at home saying "oh you are at home." this would make my life living hell. sds already presume too much already and know their father would allow it.

When we see a house for sale

dh has this happy dance look

So, have you said anything to

i have told dh in no

Ummmm.... NO!

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