I have two step daughters. One 10 and one 7. The 7 year old is very content being a kid and not really caring what the parents/ adults are doing. The 10 year old is totally different. She wants to know everything that is going on. She tries to listen to adult conversations that are not meant for her to hear. Even when we think she is not listening, we find out she was. We have caught her turning the TV down to listen and also listening through the vents in the house when we are on a different floor. When we have company over and have had conversations in code so she won't understand it, she will ask questions trying to figure it out. Even when she knows it's not meant for her. We have told her to stop listening to conversations that are not meant for her. But it seems like it's just getting worse. How do you discipline a problem like this? How do you get her to stop worrying and caring so much about what's going on with the adults? It's like she wants to be an adult and not a kid. Please help!