It just keeps getting better...
So, I posted earlier about my SS22 being in a car accident and how my DH wants me to care for her since I'm a chiropractor. NOT gonna happen...
So last night he was all mopey and pitiful and I asked at least 6 times what was wrong..."Nothing...I'm trying to let it go...blah blah blah". Finally he said he's annoyed that I don't want anything to do with his kids. I FLIPPED OUT.
My rant went something like this, "Why the hell would I want anything to do with your kids. They told me TO MY FACE. "Go Fuck yourself...you shouldn't have married my dad. I don't want anything to do with you or your family. They've posted all sorts of shit on Facebook and have never admitted any wrong doing EVER for ANYTHING."
It continued, "So why would I want to help either one of them? Better yet, why would you want me to have my hands on them? That's pretty dangerous if you ask me. They have been assholes to me from before they ever met me. How dare you even ask me to give more than I already have. I gave my heart to them both, they ripped it out, chewed on it, spit it on the ground and then stomped the hell out of it...and you have the balls to ask me to take care of your daughter? The daughter who threw you away THREE times, made huge public scenes telling the world how much of an asshole you were and she couldn't wait to get married so she didn't have to share your last name. The daughter who didn't invite you to her wedding? Then when she finally did it was because her mother's cousin canceled last minute? The daughter who made a tremendous scene and asked her mom's father to walk her down the aisle? THAT daughter"
"I watched that little imp tear you down and break you over and over again. I held you as you spent countless hours crying over your broken heart and estranged daughter. I dealt with your moods, sullen and angry, while you tried to go on with life as normal. I will NEVER care about or for that person who so terribly hurt the man I love. So don't ask me ever again. The same goes for her pothead brother"
So...that went over like a fart in church. Then he said, and bless his little heart, "So what about Thanksgiving?"
WTF, Really? My mother is having major surgery the day after thanksgiving for CANCER, I'm already a wreck about thanksgiving and my mom, and he's soooo flipping stupid to ask about inviting the trolls over to MY house so I can cook for them? OMG!! Um...HALE no!
I love chiropractors! (I have
I love chiropractors! (I have back issues)
Ummm your DH sounds like mine. Hey honey your kid just stole from me, bashed me on FB and told lies about me.
DH: umm huh, yeah so can skid borrow your car? What are you cooking them for dinner?
Men just do not get it.
Stick to your guns, sounds like you are already doing a good job of it
^^^^^I threw up in my mouth
^^^^^I threw up in my mouth when I read this...I never really thought this would be a life sentence. OMG
Thank you! Hugs are very
Thank you! Hugs are very appreciated.
I'm to hear about your mom,
I'm to hear about your mom, too. It's so hard especially with the holidays. Hang in there.
Your rant was excellent, and
Your rant was excellent, and brava to you for pointing out you are most disgusted with how those asshats treated your man. Give it a few days for it all to sink into his head, after the thoughts of turkey go away. lol
I will pray for your mom and a speedy recovery. Hope all goes well.
Tell him he has a month to
Tell him he has a month to find recipes on how to cook the perfect Tgiving Dinner.
Thanks for all of the good
Thanks for all of the good vibes, virtual hugs and the prayers. All are very much appreciated. I'm hopeful my mom will be just fine...but until the surgery is over, we just won't know. Ugh.
All the more reason for the skids to steer clear of my wrath...I mean path...or maybe I DID mean wrath.
Sounds like my bratty SD16. I
Sounds like my bratty SD16. I have my ultrasound to find out the sex of our baby #2 and invited her to go without even asking me! I haven't seen or spoke to her in 6 months! Is he f*&^%&* retarded?! I mean, is he stupid? Sometimes I think it would be easier to divorce his stupid ass.
Oh God, it has been a
Oh God, it has been a contentious battle for two days. I'm literally text fighting with him now. They make it all about them and their relationship with their children. I'm sure she will end up going to my dismay. Just another notch on the reasons to leave list. Ugh, I hate being so cynical!
YOUR baby is none of your
YOUR baby is none of your SD's business. Ask him when SD16 gets her U/S (hopefully 10 years from now) will he pitch a fit with her demanding you should be there to watch? I doubt he will...turn the tables.