After months of our marriage getting worse and us getting to the point where everything annoys us, we have called a truce. We really do love each other, and are going to work to save our marriage. 4 seasons with our counselor and we know he is not the right fit. So looking for a new one. Agreement to only deal with the now, solve only problems as they come up. And work on doing things for each other, working on the positve. More time together, more fun, and more us time.
We went out of town Friday and the whole day was a fight. The truce was drawn at midnight. We ended the night on a good note. So far the last 2 days we have made the effort together. Right now, everything is laid out for 30 days. And then we check-in and see where we are. Hopefully this next week we can find a new counselor and start working on the resentment.
Fingers crossed... After the last 2 days I actually have hope again.