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Fiance's ex wife wore my engagement ring.

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Submitted by missann88 on Wed, 07/30/2014 - 10:04pm

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After giving me a half hour speech about what it was like to be pregnant with his kids,she got all "oh my god let me see your ring!" So I sat it on the table. She put it on! Rubbed it in front of my face "oh look it fits!" Fool she's nuts. Seems to me she's trying to psych me out. Bring it on!

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Submitted by loveandfitness on Fri, 08/01/2014 - 9:50pm

AGREED. Be polite, but don't make friend or engage in conversation unless it's important information about Skids that your FH for some reason can't convey himself

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Submitted by Cocoa on Thu, 07/31/2014 - 8:36am

agree with the other. no need to speak to ex. I've been married to my dh now for 6 years, together 7 and I've NEVER had a conversation with his ex (other than being forced to interact at the hospital over ss once). if you take this advice, you'll never have to deal with something like this again.

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Submitted by CompliKated on Thu, 07/31/2014 - 9:43am

Why did you take it off anyway? I always just gave people my hand to show it.

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Submitted by QueenBeau on Thu, 07/31/2014 - 9:46am

Why were u at the table with her listening to this stuff? Why did u sit ur ring on the table?

Not to sound rude but it seems u brought this on yourself

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Submitted by SMof2Girls on Thu, 07/31/2014 - 10:57am

It'd be a cold day in hell before I would be sitting at ANY table with BM letting her give me a speech about her relationship/child-bearing experience with my husband.

I just can't even fathom a situation or circumstance where that would happen with us. Ever.

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Submitted by hereiam on Thu, 07/31/2014 - 11:06am

After giving me a half hour speech about what it was like to be pregnant with his kids

Why did you even sit through that? This whole thing is weird.

In 17+ years, I have not spoken a total of a half an hour with BM. I certainly have never watched her put on my ring!

Time to start standing up for yourself and put some boundaries up. Very strong boundaries.

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Submitted by SugarSpice on Sat, 08/02/2014 - 12:51am

clueless or a bitch. i agree. why did you sit and listen? i would have excused myself.

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Submitted by OrangeUGlad on Sat, 08/02/2014 - 9:26am

I put myself in this position a few times early on to be friendly so we could all get along. Bm pulled similar crap- since she isn't mature enough and can't set boundaries, I do not get together with her.

You gave her the opportunity, she showed you her colors- now learn to set boundaries since she can't.