And the kids aren't there?
Forums:
It's taken a few weeks for me to look at this without wanting to punch someone in the face.
BM wasn't at home, but left a note saying kids were with a babysitter at X address. DH was fuming. DH goes to get kids at X address, but they aren't here. After two hours and countless texts, he gets his kids. FYI, the entire time was DH's time, but he allowed her to keep them a little extra--2 hours, and this is what happens.
How would you have handled this situation?
Gone to the address. If they
Gone to the address. If they weren't there, call the police immediately.
^^^^^ exactly this.
^^^^^ exactly this.
Yep, this right here.
Yep, this right here.
in addition to calling cops,
in addition to calling cops, i would also certainly vow to never, ever give her extra time again if this is how she intends to use it.
She's not getting any extra
She's not getting any extra time, period. She's becoming less and less stable these past few months. Dh as hoping to lessen her time, but she lied in court and we didn't have enough solid evidence (per her attorney) to prove we had the kids 75% of the time. So now we are stuck.
They have 50/50. We made
They have 50/50. We made plans and paid for them. I think she did it on purpose.
Document this by sending her
Document this by sending her a strongly worded email.
It's 50/50, so I don't know
It's 50/50, so I don't know who is CP. Their plan doesn't say.
There's a fror, but she doesn't seem to care. Dh doesn't have to offer it to her because it allowed for future spouses (she was dating someone and was the one who insisted on it, but he saw her crazy and dumped her asap).
She asked for extra time and then dropped them off with a sitter, nothing was said to dh or the sitter about what was happening.
Police, it also will document
Police, it also will document a good case for violation of the visitation order. I would tell BM that that was my intentions next time around. I can imagine the fear of now knowing.