i have put up with a very hard ss coming bck and for between bad relaationships for 8 years after another 6 mnths at home he found himself another gf but now they are both homeless, i said they could come home for a night because he said it was just for a week, he lied its ongoing this could be forever, he hasnt worked for many years altho will work if something comes for him..they are borrowng our tent for this weekend but tonght is last night. i love my DH dearly and dont like him to worry but if i say yes again i just know it will go on and on. we both work hard and tho not on good pay are able to live a nice life however paying for two adults will push us right back down below poverty line..i and a hlta and have just broken up for 6 weeks i look fwd to this all year for peace and quiet and a time to relax. i have 5 grandchildren from my own children and feel that i m being put on again by ss..ps this gf is a complete stranger to us, never met her before they moved in for week!!!
i feel awkward in my own house and it causes resentment between my dh and self
do i really have to keep putting u with this? or am i being selfish?
my ss and i have a very strained relationship, his mther abandoned him when he was 3 and i have had him since he was 6