I am having a hard time with my boyfriend's ex. She is mean and will go through all ends planning out things to do to me and my boyfriend. She yells, curses out loud in front of our children, (I have 3, he has 3), she is violent, has rage issues and is on medication for narcissism problems. I have been crying and under a lot of stress. She harasses us, leaves mean messages on my boyfriend's phone, we had to block her on our house phone and facebook. The reason why she is doing this is because after she and my boyfriend separated 3-4 years ago, and have been divorced about 10 mos. ago is that my boyfriend and I met about 4 years ago and since then, she has tried to separate us. She is still in love with my boyfriend and will go through any means to separate us and where we will break up. I do not want to break up with my boyfriend. I love him very much. He stands by and does nothing to help our relationship. Would he not do something if he saw what it has been doing to us? I am feeling stressed, depressed, having anxiety and cry. Our relationship has been strained and he sees what it has done to me but he won't do anything. I tried to help telling him to get a restraining order against her. She is an evil woman and she needs to be as far away from us. She tried to run over my boyfriend twice, she put her twins life at peril when she drove recklessly and very fast one day when we dropped off her children. She swerved left and right and tried hitting us with her children in the car. We were up ahead, waiting for the traffic light to change. My boyfriend and her have separated because of the verbal, emotional and mental abuse my boyfriend went through. He finally decided to separate when found out she cheated on him with a man and then weeks later with a woman. She has no sense of respect, feelings towards other people and she has no morals. He has told me what he has gone through. I feel so bad because he is a wonderful man and I love him very much. It hurts to hear how she treats him and his children. She uses them, brainwashes them and controls them. They are always nervous when they talk to her on the phone at our house. She asks them everything they do and what they did at our house. Once, CPS was called and we found out it was her accusing me of hitting one of her children. We went through the interview and the lady from CPS left. There was no truth to it, we were questioned, our children were questioned and needless to say, it was all lies. She is always trying to think of ways to hurt us. She constantly is always bringing my boyfriend to court and unfortunately, despite the fact that he got custody of the twins, gradually, she now has them because he had to work and she was cooperative with what he wanted as far as the hours and schedule the twins had with both parents. My boyfriend has no car and I have to drop him off and pick him up to and from work. It is hard because I cannot work outside of our house. It would be hard getting transportation. I found employment near his job so that we could work it out. He did have a truck leased and was behind in payments. She called the dealer and gave them our address. Then they repossessed the truck. Two days ago, she was granted 75% of his paycheck. As if we didn't have enough financial problems because of her. It angers me but it also makes me so sad that this is all happening and nothing can be done about it. I don't want to leave my boyfriend and I do not know how much longer I can take. I was married to an abusive husband for 14 years and he physically, verbally and mentally abused me. Now this is my cross to bear. I have to take depression medicine and high blood pressure medicine since this all started. I pray to God she has a nightmare seeing herself in hell so that it would scare her and she would stop, but it won't. I take it day by day. I ask God to forgive her for what she does. I cannot be mean and wish bad on her, it would make me out to be an evil woman like her. Instead, I pray, hope and cry. If the day comes where I need to leave, maybe then my boyfriend will realize what he had.