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Just don't f*cking touch it!

Gabriels Mom's picture

Last night I woke up and it was freezing in the house. I sleep with DH AKA the human heater and 2 furbabies, I should NEVER be cold. I went to check the thermostat and it was on 58 AGAIN! I know it is SS that is doing it. DS5 doesn't know what it is and DH wouldn't turn it down that low. DH has repeatedly told SS not to touch it. I have to pay a 330.00 electric bill this month because of this sh!t. Now DH is mad because he saw an email pick up confirmation showing that I'm going to get a lock box thingy to go over the thermostat. When he asked I said I am going to deal with this my way I try very hard to be patient and not go ballistic when I have to repeat myself but I want to scream "DON'T TOUCH THE FUCKING THERMOSTAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" Rant over...

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hereiam's picture

I have to pay a 330.00 electric bill this month

Why do YOU have to pay it?

A lock box thingy is exactly what I was going to suggest.

Gabriels Mom's picture

LOL well I am the one who does the budget and actually logs in and pays the bill. Believe me when I say that the lion share of the money will be coming from DH. I've asked him to handle it and he hasn't so he will be paying most of the bill. SS should just not touch the damn thing. It just irritates me that he thinks he can do whatever he wants in my house.

Tuff Noogies's picture

LMAO! sorry hun, but i can TOTALLY relate... dh and i have had the exact.same.conversation about various things that affect our budget. like TURN THE FUCKING LIGHT OUT when you come out of the bathroom!!!! this happens EVERY NIGHT. also- the flourescent tank light is PLENTY sufficient, you dont need the TV on, overhead light on, ceiling fan on, and additional nightlight - TURN THE FUCKING LIGHTS/TV OFF!!!!!

yes, dh has to hear me rant over and over and over again. after SIX EFFING YEARS u'd think they'd get it. GAH!!!

Gabriels Mom's picture

I told DH I was seriously close to an outburst like the couch situation. (SS stuffs his dirty socks and candy wrappers in my couch. One day I lost my sh!t when my hand touched a wrapper. I started screaming and throwing the couch cushions and ranting about bugs and trash and dirty socks.)DH was quiet for a minute and said he'd install the lock box when I get home. I don't know why but they all freak out when I lose it. Even the dogs hide. Probably because I don't usually yell.

Tuff Noogies's picture

lol! my furbaby hides too! well, i dont yell, but he's an emotional barometer so he can tell when i'm barely contained.

i've lost my shit before with junk/clothes/trash everywhere, i told them ALL, dh included, that they had an hour to put away correctly whatever shit they wanted to keep and i was throwing everything else out. 30 minute warning, 15 minute warning, 10 minute warning. then i filled two giant trash bags and hauled them out to the car (we dont have trash service). dh freaked out, came running out to the car. with a quiet, hissing rage i told him- "i freaking told you AND them, with plenty of time and plenty of warning. i'm SICK of this shit, we've talked about it over and over and over, and there's still shit everywhere. i'm D.O.N.E done. you havent fixed the problem or handled the situation, NOW I DO IT MY WAY."

it took two hours for my furbaby to come creeping out after that Blum 3

Gabriels Mom's picture

but WHY does it take me losing my sh!t to get them to do what they are supposed to do?

Gabriels Mom's picture

It's rare but when I do they all freak out and walk on eggshells for awhile. There is only so much I can take before I snap.

Gabriels Mom's picture

Exactly. If any of us ever dared touch the thermostat I seriously think my dad would have broken our fingers....

hereiam's picture

It never once occurred to me to change the thermostat when I was a kid, never even thought about it.

Gabriels Mom's picture

LOL that would be awesome. I put felt pads on all the cabinet doors to prevent the slamming. Whenever DH is mad and tries to slam the cabinet door he gets really pissed because he can't. }:)

Tuff Noogies's picture

i'd rather they slam the doors!!! mine leave all the freaking cabinet doors and drawers open!!!!! i mean c'mon now, repeat after me- "if you open it, close it. if you take it out, put it away." this is BASIC SHIT, GUYS! Sad Sad Sad

Tuff Noogies's picture

lol ljcapp i know whacha meant! it's just that i could tolerate the slamming *much* better than the other passive aggressive "territory marking" they do by making it perfectly obvious they've been rummaging.

have even had on tell dh "IIIII do what IIIII want!" it's so blatant and intentionally done. so under this roof the leaving shit open is harder to bear than just an emotional outburst of slamming. i mean hey, everyone gets pissy from time to time....

PokaDotty's picture

We live in Florida so with the humidity it feels like it's 100+ degress so the A/C is on and set at 78...
I came home from the grocery the other day and SD15 had her bedroom windows WIDE open. I screamed like a banshee on a bad hair day! What was she thinking?!?!?! Her repsonse.... She opened the windows because it was hot in her room. :?

mimi719's picture

I love that you are all as crazy and raging as me!

No, none of us are crazy. DH doesn't understand how often I ask things very nicely...and nobody listens. Gee, why did she blow up at all of us? Cuz I've asked the same thing nicely 34 times already!