So if u saw my post yesterday about bm being pissed about cs staying in our state then flipping dh off at drop off last night in response to his attempt communicate with her since she was there in person you know dh was going to text bm instead. He didn't say anything rude. He basically told her since her new way of communicating with him is to flip him off then he will just stick to texting. He then explained details about sds school jounal and reading time and how we handled her frustrations thru it and about a hygiene issue we noticed and what we said to sd about it to explain but she wasn't taking it serious so bm should also talk to her about it. Ended with any questions or concerns text me and have a nice night. Usually she wud have blown up our phone but not a word and sd called tonight too which is unusual. Bm doesn't encourage her calling us but it could have been her stepdad who let her call. I'm just totally shocked and relieved she didn't respond for once. Important info needs to be communicated but her wrath and drama deff don't.