Why am I the one planning SS14's Trip with BM's sister to go visit Bm's other sister?
Oh that's right. Because none of bm's family speaks with her. Or maybe it's because they know bm has minimal contact with her son.
Still bugs me. I want all of BM as far away from my life as possible.
But here I am. Getting messages from the sisters.
Uuugh.
I am too kind.
But on the bright side, it's an extra 5 days u don't have to deal with SS.
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Ok. I just told dh that I was
Ok. I just told dh that I was no longer ok with this trip. I'd been in communication with the sister who lives out of state since prior to spring break. She's the sister that has stayed In touch and has attempted to stay in touch with ss after bm bounced 9 years ago. The other sister lives about 40 miles away and has never attempted to have a relationship with ss. All if a sudden, duster that lives close "wants to know if ss can tag along" on her trip to visit out of state sister.
I shared the info with dh. Dh says the while family is crazy. I asked if he really wanted to send his son off on this. ( I was ok with one sister but not ok with thus quasi family reunion, especially ehen dh does not think fondly of the sister that lives close.
I suggested dh take a weekend alone with ss instead (which he's never really fond of). Maybe I can suggest a weekend with us, baby and ss- I'm sure
Dh liked to "get rid of" ss14 when he can because bm never took any time with him and he enjoys the occasional break. I remind him that he needs to continue to keep his son's best interest in mind.