There are 4 kids in my family. We all have kids and have a partner. My oldest brother has been single for years. The last girl he was with he met on a dating site. That was..hmm 3years ago? I was told that she broke up with him because he doesn't communicate. I can totally see that. My brother is so chill. He's the guy that will sit with the crowd, laugh along a say a few things here and there, but he's pretty quiet. He's not lucky with a lot of things. If you say "where do you want to eat?" He would say "I don't care, doesn't matter". That may not always be a good quality, but he's up for anything. He said he didn't care that she broke up with him because he was getting tired of her anyways. She had made a comment about my sisters kids and he was not having it! You know how on fb you can see what your friends liked on your feed? Sometimes I see him like a girls photo from another dating site. So I know he wants to be with someone. I can't imagine him just wanting to meet women for sex. That's not like him. My mom talked to him about dating and he says he's fine. I just want him to be happy. If he's happy alone with no kids then I'm glad for him. He does have 6 nieces and nephews combined. I don't have any friends to hook him up with. I don't have friends that may have a friend either. What also makes it important to me for him to find someone is his age. He turned 40 this year. There is this one girl he's head over heels for. He knew her since high school. They've been reconnected for a while, but I don't think that's going anywhere. He's such a great guy. He has a job, he cooks, cleans,and likes to have a good time. He doesn't do drugs, he's not really a drinker, but does smoke cigarettes. He's always thinking of us and the kids. Sigh. I just pray that he finds someone to be happy with.