Wishing I could afford a second home.
Ive been away from the site for awhile super busy and super stressed and super frustrated with being the second wife, step mom, DIL, etc....So I am wishing I could afford a second home but we can't even afford the one we have. I would love a home for me, my two boys and our dog for us to go to when the skids are here and driving me crazy. It would be a lot nicer than being holed up in my bedroom with my two boys the whole time they are here because i can't stand to be around them right now, and with good reason but i wil get to that another day. The fantasy would be so nice, a cozy little home to disappear to instead of hiding out in one room or crashing someone elses home to get away. I may even let DH come visit once he realizes that he too needs to get away from the BRATS a.k.a my step kids. But since we can only dream of that why couldn't I just banish my step kids to their rooms when they are being brats instead of me having to be the one to leave the room and take my two with me to protect them from brat one and brat two...what is so damn evil about that?
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I love it! I wish I had a
I love it! I wish I had a second home too. Especially since my DH put the Wii on the living room tv and I have to fight to watch tv in my own home! I want a place where when I clean something it STAYS clean, the toilet seat stays down, no one drinks directly from the container in the fridge and most of all I just want SILENCE. I want to be able to hear myself think!!! But it is all just a fantasy for now. Hopefully when I win the lotto, it will all come to fruition.
We can't afford a second
We can't afford a second house just for me but part of the house rules are:
no children in my meditation area and don't even knock on the door unless you're bleeding or dying.
no children in the master bedroom EVER.
no children in the adult half of the basement.EVER.
It works really well and keeps their messes away from my areas. I recommend the noise cancelling bose headphones with some soft music playing to give your the silence from children you need.
An eye for eye only ends up making the whole world blind. ~Mahatma Gandhi
Invisible you sound just
Invisible you sound just like me, I always hole up in my bedroom, unfortunately skids here almost constantly, seems that way to me anyway. And Reeny I hear ya! I do have a second home that I am working on right now, painting, fixing it up really cute. DH is ready to sell it as soon as I am done - I secretly want to keep it for my own, I don't even mind going there and working on it, it's such a relief to get away from skids. I play music and I find my self actually doing a little two step and smiling from ear to ear while I'm there. I don't think we can keep up with two house payments for much longer though. I will be SO sad when we sell it.
my fantasy may become a
my fantasy may become a reality before I even know it...DH is once again threatening divorce. Over me spending money to buy lice shampoos to treat my head and my bio kids heads after SD15 brought lice into this home once again...He does this every hliday season..go around saying after the first of the year if things don't change your out....so today I am thinking why fake it through the holidays for the kids, why wait until the first of the year if he wants out...then file the papers and bring it asshole.
Oh invisible - if my DH EVER
Oh invisible - if my DH EVER said if things don't change your out, I would be gone before he could blink an eye. And what the hell are you supposed to do when his kid brings home lice?!!! You have no choice but to buy the shampoo and what a lot of work that is washing all the sheets etc etc etc. Geez your DH is ticking me off more than mine today.
I use to hide in my room
I use to hide in my room also when SS came over, he just annoyed me.
If I could have a hideaway home, I dont think I would give anyone of them my address. Not DH, SS, Bio kids. Nope, not a one