My boyfriend and I are trying to make a family but are in two different places. He has a seven year old boy and I have a two year old daughter and we have a 9 month old son. I treat all my kids equal and never favor. I feel I do everything for our kids and he only cares for his year old son. but his seven year old is a very hurt sad emotional mean little boy and I don't know how to handle him. He is rude and disrespectful to myself his teacher his dad grandparents everyone he doesn't listen to me or anything I say to him. if I tell him to do something he says dad and if his dad says do it he does but sometimes he questions me and I feel his son sees that as your a nobody. his son does mean things to my animals my daughter and myself but if his dad gets involved and says what did he do I tell him and his son lies and he believe his son. its like i'm his sister and we are fighting again. im not sure of where I stand and im sure on what to do?