Take your piece offering and shove it...
I honestly want to scream right now!!
My fiance went to the BM's house pick up his youngest yesterday and said while he ran inside to get something, BM came trottin out with a 6 pack of beer in her hand. He assumed she was going to the garage bc it was open. Here she came to the car and said I wanna apologize for the other week on the phone (She had gone off in some text msgs to him about me because she thought she over heard me getting smart with her son when in fact I was trying to break up an argument and it was bit*h this, shes not their mom, he should spit in her face and so on) so he explained thats why they don't talk on the phone and keep it to text bc its always an argument. So she hands him the six pack and says, here is a peace offering, we don't drink this kinds of beer. He took at and put in the back of the car, shut the door and left.
When he told me this, I could feel my heart racing. First off, if she was SOOO sorry about the texts she would have apologized to me - even tho she is not allowed to contact me, she would've told him to - Second, why in the hell did you take the beer!!!!! UGH! Sad part is when he told me this, he was so proud bc he thought he really stuck it to her. Didn't carry a conversation and made it short n sweet. REALLY?! I said no honey, you should've taken the beer, gotten one out, shaken it and poured it all over her head!!!! She knows damn well if I had been in that car, she would've never stepped foot outside. On Monday I had someone tell me how she was going on about me, calling me all types of names and how we are so jealous of her life bc shes a stay at home mom and blah blah blah! But now on Tuesday, you're sorry for the crap you said weeks ago?! What about all the crap for the past 4 years!!!! I can't, I just can't….the crazy is too much! Patiently waiting to have a margarita tonight - probably a 32oz one too!!!!
Woman I want you to make a
Woman I want you to make a list of people who are important in your life.
My list started with my parents and included my wife and bosses as they changed over time. The pastor of my church, perhaps a friend I admired. From each of them I accepted and listened to advise they offered.
It took a long time to get on that list.
Now when you've completed that list I want you to tell me if she's on it.
No? Then WHY IN HELL do you give one whit what she's doing or saying? NOBODY, I mean NOBODY listens to her ranting with belief. They know she's half crazy with jealousy, grief, whatever it is that drives her.
Hold your head up, ignore her, tell your "friends" you don't want to hear about her, do not under any circumstance visit her social pages like Facebook. SHE DOES NOT EXIST. Not even your husband is to say anything until the day he says "She's dead".
i would have taken every
i would have taken every bottle of beer and poured in down the sink and dumped the bottles in the trash or re cycle can.
some men dont have a clue. for instance, bm was divorcing the man she left dh for (of all things) after the second husband had an affair with another woman. (for the record, bm cheated with this man while still married to dh, and her lover was still married. karma train hit her when second husband decided to cheat on her.)
there was a large folding picnic table that used to belong to bm and her second husband, and she wanted to keep it from the soon to be ex husband. dh told sd to bring it to our house. hello? wait a minute. this woman cheated on you and left you, took the children and then married her lover, and now you want to "help" her by storing property during their divorce by harboring their joint property in our home?
so sd comes over this with large picnic table!
i told him to get the table out of the house NOW. i told him to sell it or let one of the skids keep it but i would not tolerate it under my roof.
dh said he wanted to "get back" at the man who slept with his wife. lol! by helping the woman who cheated on him.
i dont get the logic.
Sound advice ladies and thank
Sound advice ladies and thank you!! You're right his passiveness is better then the alternative. We already gave the beer to the neighbor.