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Submitted by mommyof3kids on Tue, 04/22/2014 - 11:03pm

So i just finished fighting with DH about picking up the SD on friday. This friday SD gets out of school at 12:30pm. DH and i work at same job and we work until 2 and it takes aboutan hour to get from work to SD school. BM wants DH to get SD early since its his weekend. DH told BM to have SD wait after school doing hw or reading a book at library until he gets there. BM sent a long message on familywizzard saying DH was "not making SD a priority since SD has to wait and if something happens to her its DH fault and that he isnt responsible and blah blah blah a whole bunch of insults"

DH now said he will leave work early to pick her up so he wont look bad...but he knows that our job doesnt like us doing that duu to policies n all and he is trying to promote too! He always wants to give in afraid BM will use against him in court since they are not quite done. My bkids wait afterschool sooo many times and he cant even have SD wait!!!!! Im getting fed up that he always gives in cause she is such as BITCH!

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Submitted by mommyof3kids on Tue, 04/22/2014 - 11:39pm

SD will be 13 in 2 months....court order is vague it says DH is to pick up afterschool and no time is indicated. SD would be waiting at most 2 hours and we called school and they said they r closed afterschool but lots of kids hang out all the time

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Submitted by mommyof3kids on Tue, 04/22/2014 - 11:57pm

There is no time on court order i just checked and we live @ 45 mins away from her school...reason why judge changed custody from 48% to 25% ...this judge was so vague on court order

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Wed, 04/23/2014 - 8:58am

If BM has custody and DH has visitation then what happens until DH picks her up is BM's responsibility, not DH's. He should just tell her that he can't get there until X:00 and she is free to make whatever provisions for SD she wants prior to that time. And get that CO tightened up.

ALL OF THIS!

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Submitted by mommyof3kids on Wed, 04/23/2014 - 11:54am

BM had a sitter that picks up kids on her days. She just wants to put out the on family wizzard that DH isnt getting SD on time and make him look like a bad father. Work comes first causr if she stops being so stupid she would see that the $940 she gets a month comea from HIS job

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Wed, 04/23/2014 - 10:06am

Yeah, the wording is vague and stupid. So what if the school calls at 10 a.m. on a Friday and says "Suzie Q is sick and needs to go home" Can BM demand that Dad pick Suzie Q up, since he is supposed to have her "after school on Friday" why of course she could, just like she's doing now. BMs know how to sniff this shit out of CO and make it to their advantage.

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Submitted by mommyof3kids on Wed, 04/23/2014 - 11:56am

DH will be getting hiss daughter but after he gets out of work. BM knows he works and his schedule. She is trying to be difficult

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Submitted by Patsy on Wed, 04/23/2014 - 8:37am

I agree with outtahere have her go to a friends house until your DH gets off work. That should realy set BM off.

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Submitted by mommyof3kids on Wed, 04/23/2014 - 11:59am

BM lives 3 mins from school...BM just wants to point out that he wont pick up right afterschool and say they are not a priority and he doesnt arrange his schedule to be responsible for his kids.