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pullingmyhairout83's picture

So since we have moved in to our new home we have had my ss every weekend. His bm calls are like clock work every thursday to ensure she will get to lay on her ass another weekend. Her parents have them during the week and dh takes them every weekend, so when is her turn> But, I dare not ask because if i do then I'm childish and jealous.The bm has complete control. I feel like the odd man out. She calls demands more money on top of the child support she gets. He just gives it to her. She is on section 8 and get food stamps, so what does she needs all the extra for? Her jobless man and their child. I'm just sick of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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hereiam's picture

You need to have a heart to heart with your DH, explaining that you would some free weekends and that it is not okay for him to just give her money over and above child support.

Why does he give her extra money? That would piss me off to no end. Is he afraid of her? I guess he's okay with supporting her man and the child she has with him? He does realize that's what he's doing, right?

Failing Optimist's picture

I have ss every Saturday morning through to Sunday night. It pisses me off because myself and dh work in different cities during the week and have very little time together. His bm also passes ss off to Gbm every Friday night so in my eyes she has it pretty sweet every weekend. My dh was very reluctant to not take the weekend wih his son which I understood because it is the only time he sees his kid all week but I'm not overly fond of ss. What I've done which works ois u book an event about every 6 weeks on a Saturday night. It's spread out enough so dh isn't aware of it and I can cover the cost of a child free weekend this way too! I was going insane without it and still do some weekends!!!