Well she turned 18 yesterday, went downtown last night for dinner with friends and posts all over Facebook and Twitter. Then this morning, skips school and posts that school can kiss her ass, she is staying in bed. Nice!

DH is having dinner with her tonight. I even did something nice for her and went up and found a pic of her 1st birthday and scanned it and sent it to DH to put on Facebook. I thought that since she loves social media and maybe this will make her happy and start their dinner off right. "Crickets" from her. But, all of DH's friend loved it and most of them know the situation. I know it was the nice thing to do for him and her. I don't want her back in our lives, but he is really her only hope and as some nice ladies on her yesterday pointed out, now maybe they can have a relationship on their terms without BM meddling.

DH thanked me and I think sees that I really only want what is best for him and SS. She is a package deal, but it is on our terms now.

Here's hoping, but my guard is still up. I also, put the scarf and bracelet in a bag for him to give her. I had gotten it for her for Xmas and then we ended up taking her on the trip and since we didn't give anything to our boys, we didn't give her anything either. I am a pushover, but at least, I am doing it for DH. I know by doing this, he can not blame me when this dinner blows up tonight. Not having any conversation since putting her ass on a plane half way through our trip, is going to make this the most uncomfortable dinner ever and I am glad I am golfing instead. I will be having a cocktail to celebrate her birthday and what it means for me and a nice call from my accountant that I do not owe as much in taxes as I thought.