i just want to run to the hills!
It has been quite sometime since I joined this blog, but this is my first post. This is because I really,really need your advice!
im getting married in June, and before you congradulate me,hear this, my fiancé has two sons, 20 and 10! The older son is a drug addict and was put into rehab early this year....he is very smart and instead of using that to finish varsity,he uses it to manipulate people and justifying his drug use!
Yesterday the rehab centre called with the news that he is suspended with other two guys for raiding the store room and taking petrol and smoking it (whatever that means). So he is back home for two weeks. All I can think is," do I really want to do this?" im so scared!
Please help!
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I think his dad feels guilty
I think his dad feels guilty because this boy is guilt tripping him! Saying he uses because he was traumatized by the failed marriage of his BM and FDH and the eventual death of the BM! Self diagnosis!!!!!
Thank you all for your
Thank you all for your advice....talking to people who really understand what im going through is a very refreshing change! I think somehow I already made a decision but I wanted you to say it,good thing is, I haven't moved in with them yet it just didn't feel right. I've decided to deliver an ultimatum: his sons moves out and gets help or there won't be a wedding-no kidding!
Now I want to focus on finishing my PhD and see what happens. Thank you family, you are the best!