I don't think this is the right situation for me to be in any longer. SS17 has taken things too far. After coming home and hearing SS17 having sex with his girlfriend and DH not thinking it was a big deal I took matters into my own hands. I took the lock off of SS's door and called the girl’s parents who have made it clear that she will not be seeing or talking to SS17 until she graduates in a few months and moves out. The father was pissed and wanted to kick both DH and SS's asses. That was the tip of the iceberg. SS17 got mad at me for doing what I did.

He would come behind me while I was doing dishes and flick water in my face. We were eating dinner and he asked for his lock back. I told him no. He told me that I was just mad that his father wasn't pleasing me. DH told him to shut his mouth. He called me a female dog. Again DH told him to shut his mouth. I got up and took his plate and threw it in the garbage. I looked him dead in the eye and told him he will not talk to me like that.

HE asked his father why he chose to marry me. Just because a girl has large breast and puts out on the first date doesn't mean you marry her. Only he said it in much more raunchier terms. My DH just told him to watch his mouth. I had it and packed a suitcase. I'm not staying somewhere, where a child is allowed to talk to me any kind of way and not get punished. Where my DH won’t stick up for me against his own child. Before we married SS would just ignore me and speak when spoken to and I just thought he was being a teenager. Now I see he is an ass and so is his dad for letting him treat me the way he does.