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Willow2010's picture

Not sure how to handle this. It is a kind of new annoyance. So..SS flew in Saturday and spend that day with BM and then was here for a few hours yesterday and will be back in a week for a weeks stay. FML.

He talked about BM the whole time. Not 10 minutes passed that he would not throw in "my mama" phrase. I am still not used to that. Especially from a 21 year old. GAG.

But the thing that bothered me the most was that he was extremely rude about DH at least 4-5 times though out those few hours.

The way he talked....he and BM spent most of the time making fun of DH. And DH said nothing!!! Just laughed it off. I was fuming...See things that SS told us.

"Mama and I looked through my old baby pictures yesterday. We found a lot with you in them. We laughed so hard at your hair. It was so stupid. lol"

"In one of them your leg was propped up and it looked like you were posing. It was so dumb and me and mama laughed about how dumb you looked."

You get the idea.

WTH!?

A little while after SS left, I told DH that it took all I had not to tell SS to knock it off. DH said it did not bother him so not to let it bother me. How on earth do you NOT let that bother you!!!??

UGH...so mad. And I get to put up with a full week of that crap!!!

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hereiam's picture

But your DH must be soooo proud that his son is bonding and laughing with his mama. What a good boy.

Willow2010's picture

It think next time he does it I am going to say...

"So SS, is that all you and your mom do while you are there...just sit around and bash your dad?" Or something like that. A dig, but not to obvious...

learningallthetime's picture

Or you should comment "yeah, your dad's style has improved greatly, now the question for you, SS, is was the bad taste your moms influence, or was she just desperate enough to have a baby with someone she openly mocks?"

stormabruin's picture

Ahhh...a proud day for your DH, no?

When I was organizing my DH's old photos, I made sure to keep a few BM gems easy to get to. My favorite one is of BM & her mom in their pajamas, fresh out of bed eating breakfast.

BM has her tongue in her cheek trying to clean food bits out of her teeth.

That one had a clear path into the keepsake albums I made for each of the kids. Biggrin