Why when you refuse to be a doormat your the bad guy.I refused to allow BM to dictate things in my home. I have dealt with BM trash talking me to anyone who will listen. I have sat through her demanding that she "meet me formally" before she allows SD for overnights (we have been married a couple of years now, you would think she would get over herself) I have been told SD is scared of me , that I am harsh, and even by DH that I should stay out of it.< this after I agreed to the 'interview' but only after I explained to all parties that I was doing it for SD because no matter how stupid her parents are she deserves to be able to spend the night with her Dad. How can I stay out of it when you and your SKANK BM pull me into it??

She is remarried so things have gotten a little better. Her H lives in the next town and is rarely at her home at night during the week. So I was really questioning one of the most recent stunts she pulled....just the other night she called DH's cell at 3:15 am? She let it ring enough to wake both of us up and hung up. DH called back all upset thinking it was something about SD. She says it was an accident. Of course my DH is ready to jump up and run to the rescue (he is actually the poster child for guilty Disney Dad)
Really? this women is conniving and sneaky but tries to play innocent.

She confronted me recently to address a situation that happened between her and DH. SD just started overnights and BM ramped up the PAS, her and DH got into it (ended with her staying 1 night instead of 2). Bm wanted to ease SD into overnights/ well because you know she may not be ready for a full weekend when he has her like 4/5 days a week here from morning until late evening.(Mind you I was the one that said to DH does it not make since to let her spend weekends since you have her all day Friday, Saturday, and Sunday doing all the driving on the other side of the city?

BM decides to confront me about it in hopes of me seeing her point and from a 'mothers' perspective? lol I am so proud of myself because I told her that because I don't involve myself with their issues the only thing I can add is that SD had a great time no issues. I completely ignored her for the duration of the event .I am not kissing her ass just so DH can see princess rotten brat ..LOL the look on BM face priceless, yet skanky.