I've realized that my friends who are not in the situation will understand. After too much stress and too many battles, I've waved my white flag. If you don't trust me and I have to justify everything I do, then I, for your benefit, will not be one-on-one with your son. Don't complain. Don't argue. I've stated my case and from now on you deal with it. It may be my purse today, but when the police come calling, I don't want to hear it. And no, I don't have bail money!