BM is thinking about leaving the state and requesting if the SK can go with her. HELL YEAH, THEY CAN GO!! However, it's not up to the parents, it's up to the SK who are 11 & 7. If the SK doesn't want to go with her, she is thinking about going without them. Which I doubt she will since that means she will lose a nice child support. I would just die if I knew they were going to be with us FULL TIME. My life would be pure hell. I can barely handle them when we have them which is 50/50.

Deep down I know that DH wouldn't mind them going with their mom. Of course he will miss them and he does love them dearly, but he wouldn't mind not having to deal with all the BS that BM gives us.

If you knew that your SK were going to be with you FULL-TIME what would you do? My anixety level is already high and I have a difficult time with the oldest one.