MANIPULATIVE SD ---- HOW DOES ONE DEAL WITH THIS?
My SD is young 11yr who knows how to manipulate both her parents. I know DH sees it, but why it drives me insane when he doesn't do put her in her place.
When she goes back to mommy dearest..they discuss everything that has transpired during the stay with us. I know that she is her mothers ears and reports what we all do and say. How does one stop this?? DRIVES ME INSANE. Shut the F up brat. I can see right through her. I feel myself plotting evil things to her and her mother. nothing awful of course just evil thoughts in my head.
She is a selfish brat and I can't stand it when it's our turn to have them. I turn into this person I do not like. I wish she would just live permantely with her evil twin mother.
I tried being kind. I tried ignoring her.
HELP!
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your not going to stop the
your not going to stop the "reporting" You can tell her all you want that you don't want her to do this, but trust me, it's not going to accomplish anything, if anything it will probably add fuel to the BM/SD fire if they know it bothers you.
Yeah, I agree at least make
Yeah, I agree at least make it fun! I don't like to brag and I really don't have much to even brag about.. but in comparison to BMs??? I am freaking royalty. So if you want to run back and tell BM verbatim everthing I say and do, then by all means.... I would make sure I pointed out that I used to have a Dodge Stealth, tell stories about college, show pictures from my horse shows, talk about the homes I've owned etc etc so that skids could run back and tell BMs (who have no jobs, no education, no cars, never owned a home etc)
HA! I've been looking at
HA! I've been looking at this completely the wrong way!
I was always concerned that SD12 would tell her mom that I was "loaded". As with notasm, I'm not, but I've worked hard for the things that I have. SD12 seems to think that I'm rich. So I've been concerned that BM might try to break into my house,(drug issues)if this was what SD12 was telling her. Of course, I'm a bit paranoid, I'm not even sure SD12 could find my house.
However, I could totally use this to drive psycho insane! Especially if SD12 starts wanting to be like me. (She's started acting this way, but I still feel it's for SO's viewing pleasure, rather then truth.)