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Submitted by rrainbow on Tue, 09/03/2013 - 2:31pm

At no point in my relationship was it discussed that I would be fearing my SD from moving in. . In fact the relationship with DH and his kids was non existent. ... I supported him in building up a relationship now they wanna move in and u am the bad guy for not wanting that to happen. ...... I don't care I did not give birth to these people and I getting too old for the drama that comes with it.....

Just want a peaceful life and helping out when I can. ..... I did not sign up to bring up a dead beat moms kids. ...!...aaaaaaa Rggggggggggg

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Submitted by TASHA1983 on Tue, 09/03/2013 - 3:26pm

JUST CRY???!!! More like tying a noose around my neck and jumping off a chair... }:)

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Tue, 09/03/2013 - 2:47pm

Exactly how I feel... Yes I knew DH had kids, but they were "weekend" kids. Then WHAMMO... lying, stealing, manipulating SD decides she wants to move in with us and I'm supposed to be all happy about MY money being spent on her, MY time being wasted, MY stress level going sky high because "I knew what I was getting into"

Nope, I was a dumb ass, who never dreamed that skids would want to come and live with us. I seriously get sick to my stomach just thinking about the fact that at any moment, that pothead, school failing, shoplifting SS14 could call and decide that he too wants to come and live with us. I would have to go to the funny farm. No doubt about it.

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Submitted by TASHA1983 on Tue, 09/03/2013 - 3:24pm

All I can say is FML if that brat ever had to darken my doorstep permanently...while he was coming in I would be moving OUT! FUCK THAT!!!

No man is worth being miserable 24/7 with some brat that has to live under your roof!!!

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Submitted by rrainbow on Tue, 09/03/2013 - 11:20pm

SD12. SD14. ...... thanks for replys I told him today I didn't think it was gonna work out and he was looking sorry for himself ..Notasm thank u I am the same everything is in my name thank god through experience I let go on depending on a man for security . If it all went tomorrow I am secure enough in myself to know hey I will be ok ;)). .... I don't use and abuse anyone and I certainly don't allow anyone to use and abuse me . .. Lol thank u x x

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Submitted by rrainbow on Tue, 09/03/2013 - 11:31pm

Just for the record DH didn't see much of girls because BM never seemed to answer the phone not turn up to drop kids off. ... she stole his money and tried destroying any relationship he had with his kids. ... toxic

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Submitted by hereiam on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 8:26am

How long have they been building this relationship?

I wonder why they want to move in. It's kind of odd for 2 teenage girls to want to move in with their father, who they have just recently gotten to know. I would be kind of suspicious, but that's just me.