Well that lasted long!!! BD daughter came back yesterday from a 5 day trip. Knew he was brewing yesterday. Sadly H has become predictable. BD10 has turned into a tweenie recently. My attitude is ignore it and don't reward. I have full support from BD. H is still smarting from SD leaving. Suppose if he can't have his D with us then my D is not getting away with anything!! Bringing up behaviour and attitude ( mostly back chatting and attempted refusal to do something) from last week. She was made to do what I asked off her own back she apologised to both of us. Done as far as I'm concerned. Is he angry because SD went?? How long is this going to last. He subtlety picked a fight. I fell for it. it's so hard not to. But instead of allowing my BD to be subjected to its all I took us to my best friend who asks nothing, just provides a bed and wine. Did I do the right thing??