Bleh. Can you say "irritable"?
I'm irritable! Probably largely due to being due in 10 days. (ya think?)
I had to ask DH to please ask ss13 to knock/ask before entering our room tonight after he flew past me at 9 pm as I was heading to the bathroom and he wanted to say goodnight to his dad. Even my 9 year old son has more respect and will stand patiently at my door when it is open, and wait to get my attention before walkIng in.
Today skid also announced that he wanted to attend a local private hs next year because that's where his friends are going. I told him he better get a job and start saving. I didn't bother to address his poor grades and the fact that they won't let him in.
Trying to be nice....
Mostly.
But is it really too much to Ask to not have skid barging into my room?
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Your about to have a baby and
Your about to have a baby and your teenage skid is bull dozing past you to get into YOUR bedroom? I would have close lined him. What the hell. He DOES realize what goes on in your bedroom to CREATE that swollen mound on your abdomen that's about to turn into an infant, right? So he doesn't belong in there.
Lol, I know, right? The kid
Lol, I know, right?
The kid just really has no idea of boundaries as it was just him and DH for about 7 years. I asked DH to please speak with him about entering our room and asking permission. I think DH is still unclear on boundaries a well, but thankfully,he goes along with my wishes.
My husband SLEPT with the
My husband SLEPT with the skids before I moved in. I shut that down day one I moved in.
Then when his kids barged into his bedroom to use the master bath as I lay in bed half naked...I banned them coming in at all.
Yes!!!! When I first slept
Yes!!!!
When I first slept over dh's house, it totally creeped me out to find SS In his bed when we'd come home from a night out or when DH would invite him into his bedroom with us to watch a movie on a sat night.
I don't like it.
Of course, it doesn't bother me as much when my kids are in my room (they always ask to come in) but I feel like SS is an intruder. I'm sure it's a natural feeling not to want an unrelated teen aged boy in my bedroom. Heck, I've had to ask DH not to parade his friends, mother and SD into our room. He's recently done some work on our room and is proudly showing off his skills, but I am not ok with people being in my bedroom, especially when it is in disarray and I have my bras and underwear strewn about.
I also am territorial about
I also am territorial about my room.. that being said I was allowed as a child to come in if the door was open. I would just start closing the door when you leave the room when your in the room... I realize it is slightly manipulative but what people can understand is knocking! My SD used to just come on in and when she was having a night mare she would RUN in there. Now after a few chats she is 6 and she knocks even if she upset and scared over a nightmare! It is your personal space I don't think your being irrational at all!
You are not feeling this way
You are not feeling this way cause ur due.... Ur feeling this way because its justified!
My skids, literally treat our bed and bedroom as their own personal living room, eat food in our bed, rip off all the blankets and sheets, play their video games watch tv.... I cannot stand it! They both have their own rooms, which they are NEVER in.... and instead have taken over ours. The minute they wake up, they come into our bedroom. I feel total invaded and like I have NO privacy or space of my own, like they control everything!!!
I would stop it now before that lil one gets here and u snap on him for it!!!!!!!