:jawdrop: so I typed in what to do if your stepchild hates you and this site popped up. Married 2 years he has two girls, I have one. (3 girls!) his ex wife is psychotic and if that wasn't enough so is his oldest! The mother is constantly feeding her bull, harassing my husband and I, even went as far as to verbally attack my 3 year old(it started when she was 2), she ran over my dog by opening the gate calling him from the window of the car and running him over... It's crazy and started 6 months after I married him( her boyfriend dumped her) So anyways his daughter goes and tells everyone how I smack her around and beat her when no ones around, accused my daughters dog of attacking her when she was climbing the tree(not supposed to) and scratched herself, tells her dad she is afraid of me and that's why she doesn't want to visit, the list is endless. I bend over backwards for his girls but nothings good enough for the 7 year old. I feel so guilty because I dread visitation, I avoid conversations because she twists everything. I can't allow her to be alone with the two younger girls because she beats on them(not sisterly love way) after three years in total of her behaving this way I feel like I'm going to loose it. She is in therapy, I have gone, we have gone as a family... It just never ends... Am I awful?