Well he asked and I said yes! It’s official now He asked me while I was in sweats working on a big paper and it was perfect. Egads, I love him so much! I told him about Anon’s recommendation of sending an email after picking up SD and in doing so giving her a couple of days to get used to the idea before being around their daughter. So that's the plan. FDH will tell SD alone while I’m at work. Everything I’ve read says the crazy train gets a bit more intense after engagement (or marriage or babies), I really hope we don’t have too many issues with the wildebeest.