Stupid Facebook and my big mouth!
SO if you read my blog last night, BM is threatening to take us to court to get EOW instead of the 50/50 every weekend that we have now. She has thrown this out before, but now when DH asked her why she would be doing this now. Taking his time away and being such a bitch because he has done NOTHING, she said that she is mad at me for a post from a month or so ago about how SD didn't have any of her homework done and didn't have anyone "that had time" to help her study her spelling words when she got to our house on a Thursday. FYI spelling test is Friday and she had already been told she would miss Friday activity because she hadn't turned work in the beginning of the week and had yet to get it done. I never mentioned BM in the damn post, but I did say "and we are the bad parents, I think not".
I know it was stupid to even put it on facebook and I know that it was stupid to have forgotten to block a mutual "friend" (the one who printed and showed BM the post), but I was fucking pissed off. Now BM says that it is all my fault what is happening. Oh well, I don't care. If she can't hurt DH by telling him he is just like his father, then she uses SD, and if that doesn't work, she goes after the only other thing that she thinks can hurt DH and that is for him to be upset at me. Too bad DH is on to her little game and doesn't let it affect our marriage.
I have appologozed for the post (to DH not to BM) and all is forgiven so the fact that she is dragging it up over a month later to justify her bitchiness is laughable!
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UGH...I really hate FB. Glad
UGH...I really hate FB. Glad your DH has your back! Most would not over something like this.
I have to be honest here...if I found out that my kids SM was bashing me on FB, I would probably try to limit her time at that house also. I mean, if SM has the balls to air that kind of dirty laundry on the internet, (about my parenting) I would assume she would be talking bad about me to my kid too. KWIM?
I actually agree with you,
I actually agree with you, but I see first hand what kind of damage can be done when trashing a parent. BM says things to SD all of the time about what a horrible person DH is. I would never do that to BM or anyone for that matter. I am a firm believer that you repsect adults, reguardless of the situation so I would never give SD a reason to not have respect for her mother.
I hate fb as well. I am very
I hate fb as well. I am very choosey with who sees my info and I BLOCK all of dh's family and the horseface bitch devil cunt and her flying monkey husband. Block, block, block and set your privacy settings.
Hahaha make sure is this goes
Hahaha make sure is this goes to court to have her reason of "revenge" cause you hurt her wittle feewings on big old facebook. Seriously, how juvenile pass it along she wouldn't be so butt hurt if it wasn't true huh?
My thought exactly. She can
My thought exactly. She can post shit about DH and I, being a "beer guzzling baby daddy and his ho'", or "somedays I wonder what she has that I don't, then I realize it is probably herpes", but I can't post a direct quote from the lips of my SD and defend all of the smearing of DH and I when she says we are just horrible parents and the only reason I work is because I hate my kids and don't want o be around them! Give me a F'in break!
Who cares what is written on
Who cares what is written on FB!?!?! Such drama I swear, that is why I don't have one. It's not like you went on there and said anything but the facts, or stated flat out what a bad mom she is. I don't think any judge would give your DH LESS time because of a FB post of that nature. And frankly, what a waste of the judges time to try to take time away from a dad because SM said something BM didn't like. Too effin' bad. Help your kid with her homework and you wouldn't have this issue at all!!!
BM is just still fuming from
BM is just still fuming from seeing what she posted. I think a judge would be pissed to if that got brought to his or her court. I wonder were these BM get the money to take DH to court over stupid sh** anyway? Get over it BM it was months ago.
Oh you must not have read my
Oh you must not have read my other post. BM is getting her money by saving her CS that she got after her divorce was finalized for her other kid. She actually told my DH that. She is using CS for her 1 year old son to pay for a lawyer to take DH to court. Oh and her mommy is helping her too.
Yayyy! Less time with the
Yayyy! Less time with the kid means less time dealing with the mama. It's kind of sad for your husband, but good for you and the relationship!
