SS13: Oh, it's date night? you guys should take me
DH comes home tonight with SS and says he'll make SS something to eat really quick and then we'll head out. Thursday night is our date night and we'll usually grab a bite to eat or take care of an errand we need to do without the kids - tonight we're stopping at the pharmacy.
SS asks, "oh, you're going out tonight? what do you usually do?"
DH: Oh, like go out to pizza and play video games
SS: oh...(sad face) you guys should take me
silence.......................................
DH didn't even respond and just finished heating up his dinner and is now in the shower.
Sorry SS. You get to finish your homework and your makeup work. And no, you're NOT coming on date night.
What's this kid think?
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Wouldn't you just love to
}:) Wouldn't you just love to give a funny look and say "but we're not into threesomes."
^^^^^^ Awesome!!! I was
^^^^^^ Awesome!!! I was thinking something along those lines. Hehe ^^^
No shit, when SD11 is with
No shit, when SD11 is with us, me and DH can't do anything alone. I wanted to go hiking by myself, but just out of courtesy, I asked my DH if he wanted to go just to be nice, secretly hoping he would say no. I said, "I'm going to &&&, do you want to come? It's going to be about a 3 hour hike-if I don't get lost" And I said it in front of SD so she would realize it was a long hike that would require effort and lazy her wouldn't want to go. Well, DH said yes. "Can I go?"
Shit.
So we ended up driving through the country for 2 hours, all 3 of us. No peaceful alone time. no exercise. Sucks.
HAHAHAHAHAH!
HAHAHAHAHAH! Yeeeaahhh......NO. SS14 and SS8 actually thought they were going with us to LovelyTropicalIsland for our honetmoon. Yeah, not happening. When they started cheering and asking what they should pack, BS16 shook his head and started laughing!
Date Night + Kid = NO.
Stepdevil14 would get highly
Stepdevil14 would get highly pissed off when we'd have our date nights. She'd say "you guys shouldn't have your date night on MY week with you" and got horribly offended when HER therapist encouraged us to continue doing so even on HER weeks with us.
We'd have his dad come sit with her or take her to his dad's for a couple of hours. Our date nights were usually dinner out only, not anything more than an hour or two. She would totally bitch even though she liked to spend time with granddaddy back then because he usually would take her out for their own "date night".
It's just a way of them inserting themselves into your plans because heaven forbid you have fun WITHOUT them!
Don't you know that you are
Don't you know that you are supposed to cater to skids when they are around? And don't you also know that when they are with their other parent you are to sit around doing nothing pining for their return?? SMDH
LOL...skids think we shouldn't do anything when they are at MOTY's. We should not eat anything, do anything, wish they were with us, etc. Ummmm, we live our lives. MOTY always sadly sits waiting for their return from visitation, they told us that. NOT. MOTY sends her kids sick all of the time and then won't return skids calls because she is out doing her fun stuff with her BF. She has the skids brainwashed.
^^^Yup - when I had SD14 on
^^^Yup - when I had SD14 on my Facebook (only for a short time), she'd get PISSED if she saw me post anything that we were doing without her. DH had to explain that our lives didn't stop when she was at her mom's and we were free to do as we wanted. She cried and whined that we only did the "fun stuff" without her and got DH feeling all guilty because her dear mother never took her anywhere or did anything with her.
I purposefully planned 2 occasions when I knew she'd be at her mother's, because I did NOT want to deal with her drama queen, center of attention theatrics. The first occasion was my wedding dress burning party (from my former marriage). When she caught wind of that, she wanted to come, so she asked her mother and she said sure, so she called DH. He initially said yes, but then I reminded him that it wasn't necessarily going to be a kid-friendly type of event so he called her back and said no. Well, wouldn't you know it - BM called him 15 minutes later screaming for him to keep his girlfriend's mouth shut about their divorce! Seems SD was soooo pissed at being told no, she lied to her mother saying *I* told her a week prior during our camping trip (that SHE got to come along with) that her mother caused their divorce and that SHE couldn't trust her own mother...
That was just the beginning of the lies SD would tell to either get DH in "trouble" with BM, make Dh or I look bad, or simply not have to come over. We can't trust her anymore and both of us refuse to be alone with her ever again.