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Submitted by just.his.wife on Thu, 04/18/2013 - 8:19am

I am starting to come to the opinion that MEN like drama. That they cannot live without it and when life settles down they have to stir up and make some of their own.

In my case:

BM is in check
Skids are behaving
Our relationship is going great
No financial issues

So why does he have to cause drama?

Back in high school DH had a girlfriend that was freaking obsessed with him. Took it to beyond creepy which is what had him breaking up with her. I have heard multiple stories of how early in his and BM’s marriage this chick would be seen driving past their house, at the hospital when a kid was born, etc.

DH texted me a little bit ago. Apparently she messaged him on face book and wanted to meet for lunch.

Reality check DH:
You blocked this chick from your face book a year ago when she first messaged you. Which means she created a whole new face book profile just to find you.
You readily admit she has some psych issues.
You readily admit you do not want to be friends with her.

And when I told him hell no he was not meeting her for lunch he acted as if I were unreasonable. I get that it strokes his male ego to have women ‘fight’ over him. So I refuse to do it. Simply told him if he meets her for lunch, do not come home. I finally managed to exorcise the psycho demon out of my house and I refuse to stand and watch as he builds an alter to summon another.

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princessmofo's picture

Submitted by princessmofo on Thu, 04/18/2013 - 8:24am

:jawdrop: Wow! I am in agreement with the "if he meets her for lunch, do not come home." Why would he want to invite "crazy" into your life? Perhaps you should have lunch with an 'old flame' too and see how jerkwad dh likes that...

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Thu, 04/18/2013 - 8:35am

He really expected you to say it was fine for him to go on a date with another woman???LOLOLOLOL

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Submitted by princessmofo on Thu, 04/18/2013 - 9:23am

Yep. In my experience, men LOVE to talk about something they've seen or something they think they know. I hear more gossip from the 'men' in my life then I ever do the women.

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Thu, 04/18/2013 - 9:28am

Simply told him if he meets her for lunch, do not come home.
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That's EXACTLY what I would've done ^^^ Smile

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Submitted by misSTEP on Thu, 04/18/2013 - 9:31am

I don't know if they like drama but they do like the feeling of having their ego stroked by having two women "fight" over them.

I also know in my own case, DH's childhood was full of drama with his parents and then his only real relationship was with BM and she is a nutcase so plenty of drama there. I think that was the only way he learned how to relate. I had to teach him that you can have a relationship withOUT all the drama built in!

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Submitted by Onefootout on Thu, 04/18/2013 - 9:33am

Yes some men love women to get jealous and fight over them. My ex-bf remarked that he noticed his ex-gf stalker hadn't contacted him lately. He acted dissappointed. And he hated that I wouldn't stalk him after we broke up.

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Submitted by bi on Thu, 04/18/2013 - 10:32am

wow, what a loser. sounds like he has insecurity issues. i have an ex like that, too. i'm not one to go right into a fight, but i did bust his exgf in the mouth once because i had been putting up with her shit for a year. she had been talking about me, trying to start shit between him and me, doing everything she could to insert herself and i had just had enough. so i busted her mouth. he went around for weeks after that telling everyone i "beat her ass for him!" um, NO. i did it for me. it had nothing to do with him, it had everything to do with what she was doing to and saying about me. (i was 23, i would not do something like that now at 35). but there was no telling him differently. he was oh so proud that i fought "for him". whatever, loser. i won't fight for any man. i shouldn't have to. a man should be with me willingly, and if he wants me to fight for him, he isn't worth fighting for.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Thu, 04/18/2013 - 11:47am

Wait...What? He asked if he could go on a date with another woman...? And ex at that and acrazy one. Wow. Just wow. You may need to watch your DH.

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Submitted by Gabriels Mom on Thu, 04/18/2013 - 12:27pm

What is the reason for everything they say and everything they do? Men are stupid.

I blocked the ex that DH had an emotional affair with. DH didn't seem to get mad when he noticed...then a month ago he says...So and so created another facebook to email me...that's a little crazy...

A little crazy? Sounds a lot crazy to me. I wouldn't do that. If someone blocks me I assume that means they don't want to talk to me. He didn't respond to the email and then he blocked that profile also.