Can't wait to see what type of attitude SS will have tonight.

DH knows exactly how I feel.

And after SHOWING DH exactly what it costs to send SS to this private school - especially in comparison to what DH makes on a monthly basis, I think DH will definitely be on board with my parenting advice and consequences.

DH knows I will not send him to this school next year
DH know he can't afford to send his son to this school on his own (and he does not want to seperate finances - he will, but why would he want to? no benefit at all for him. he might actually have to give up some of HIS goodies to pay for SS).

Will update later.