Where do i start well im a young mother of two boys 10 and 4 from a previous relationship i was in for about 10 years i meet who i feel is my soul mate 3 years ago i went into the relationship knowing he had a 10 yr old son he had custody of cause the child refused to respect his mom and was doing bad in school the child no longer wanted to be with the mom this boy has been with his dad since the age of 7 and hes now 11 me and the dad now have our own baby who is now 2 months old the lil boy lives with the grandma cause the moment me and the dad got together he started acting out in school now this little boy would notlisten to me when i would watch him while his dad was out at work when i would ask to clean up after himself or do his homework or to head to bed at a CERTAIN time something my children would do with no problem i would have to call his dad so he can re ask his son to do what i asked early or have him talk to his son cause he would suck his teeth shrug his shoulders at me and these are things that get under my skin now the ss is here every weekend and on school vacation his dad plans in moving him back in when school year is over and i hate the thought of this ive spoken to my spouse about this and he says is my lack of conversation with the boy thats the reason he acts like that when the little boy comes in my home he walks by me and dosent even say hi alot of the times and his dad has to bring it up to his attention to say hi to me he follows his dad every where he likes to interrupt or involve himself in adult conversations that me and his dad are having if i wake up in the morning to use the bathroom he takes advantage of that to go in the room and lay on my spot with his dad he has his own bed in my home so i dont get why hes doing these things this little boy is not a friendly kid he does not like to play the other children hes to grown for his little age and when he looks at my baby thats his dads son also he looks at him with sadness this little boy has always had things his way and this is something i do not take part of at all my children do not run my home neither my life so the next little boy would not get that out of me its up to the point where i think in the long run i might just wanna break things up with his dad my spouse cause of this little boy