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O/t do you think this is rude

purpledaisies's picture

Submitted by purpledaisies on Thu, 01/03/2013 - 3:27pm

My bday is Dec 7th just add it to your calender already!
This is a fb post.

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unsure99's picture

Submitted by unsure99 on Thu, 01/03/2013 - 3:29pm

Well I haven't posted that on FB but I am tired of getting the birthday request notifications all the time.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Thu, 01/03/2013 - 3:35pm

I don't do the calendar thing as I believe the people who really care will remember. But I just thought this was so rude. I mean what happened to choice? And I choose not to wish certain people happy bday and she is one of them! Plus its just assuming that everyone is that involved her life that they would be kissing her ass to do so.

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Submitted by smdh on Thu, 01/03/2013 - 3:55pm

Hmmmm only if you respond with "It is on the calendar. I chose to ignore it, as it didn't interest me"....

Ok, that is mean. Personally, I don't take fb posts seriously. I find them entertaining. Far be it for me to assume I am the intended target of a vague passive-aggressive remark. If someone wants my attention they'll have to be direct and specific!

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Thu, 01/03/2013 - 3:56pm

I think it is rude b/c she has sent me several calender requests and I ignored them and I bet others did too and she got pissed and won't this. So yes it was rude to try to out the people that didn't put her in their calendar.