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Advice please: Absent minded dreamer skid :(

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Submitted by sunny_skies on Mon, 04/11/2016 - 11:31am

This is pretty long! But I'd really appreciate any suggestions or ideas. I feel a bit silly asking for advice on this. I know others have really bad skid problems and all I'm having trouble with SSstb6 not listening to what he's told, but I'm scared it will get worse as he gets older.

I must say that I've mentioned it on here before and people have automatically assumed he's being a little s***t and not listening on purpose.

AAAAAAARRRGHHH

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Submitted by sunny_skies on Sat, 04/09/2016 - 10:42am

I HAVE JUST CAUGHT SS *CHEWING* ON ONE OF MY BEAUTIFUL WOODEN DINING ROOM CHAIRS

OH MY GOD. REALLY?!! WHAT ARE YOU, 6MONTHS OLD? OR SIX *YEARS* OLD??!!!

I f***ing kid you not, there are f***ing TEETH MARKS ON MY F***ING GORGEOUS CHAIR 

OH MY GOD.

F**k you DH.

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Submitted by sunny_skies on Fri, 04/08/2016 - 5:10pm

F**k you DH. F**k you. F**k you. F**k you for EVER even contemplating that it would be a good idea to have a f***ing baby with that f***ing psycho. 

Both of you. Just. ALL of a f***ing sudden realised it wasn't a good idea while pregnant and split before he was even f***ing born? After LIMPING along in a f***ing JOKE of a marriage for HOW many years?!!

Wtf is wrong with you. I hate that you're stuck with her for life now. I hate that I have to deal with SS's f***ing bullshit now. 

Tone Up Tuesday/Lost it with SS :(

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Submitted by sunny_skies on Tue, 04/05/2016 - 12:55pm

*warning* if you're in a good mood, don't click on my blog, coz I'm in a baaaad mood!!!

I rarely post about my step problems, as I get paranoid about BM finding me online. But..

I *LOST* it with SSstb6 over the weekend. I'm talking like.. I completely f***ing lost it with the damn f***ing kid. There may even be spirits that were raised from the dead with the Sunny fury I laid upon him. I'd had ENOUGH of calmly repeating "don't do that sweetie" .. "cmon darlin, let's not do that" .. "Hun, you know not to do that"

Tone Up Tuesday

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Submitted by sunny_skies on Tue, 03/29/2016 - 3:46pm

Stayed the same weight this week, that's ok I guess. But I've been struggling with my emotions regarding my weight lately :/

The main emotion I've been having towards myself recently is anger for "letting myself go" so badly, for letting myself get quite so big. 

Is it Monday yet.

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Submitted by sunny_skies on Sun, 02/28/2016 - 3:31pm

SSstb6 sitting with a weird look on his face (eyes rolled up in the back of his head, leaning to the side, mouth slightly open, teeth showing, and almost.. but not quite, drooling.)

"uhhhhhhh!!!" 
*deep breath in*
"uhhhhhhh!!!"
*deep breath in*
"uhhhhhhh!!!"

DH: "SS will you stop that noise, it's very annoying"

SS: "I'm just practising my thinking"

Ggghhhrffgghtaaaarrggghhhtggfgfffffhhhhh

DH procrastinating (*warning* super long rant)

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Submitted by sunny_skies on Sat, 01/02/2016 - 12:43pm

I am so sick of it. I reached breaking point yesterday. DH procrastinates with *EVERYTHING* omigosh.

Just for background: DH and I have DD26 months together. (I only said her age in months, in case I said "2yr old" and you guys might imagine a much older 2yr old lol) 

DH also has SS5.5yrs, we've been together since he was a few months old, SS is with us every weekend.

Doing things for skids..

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Submitted by sunny_skies on Wed, 10/14/2015 - 9:47am

..that *appear* to be helpful to them, but are actually for your own benefit! (ooh, sneaky)

I can't remember which blog it was now, but I read somewhere about an SM  who helps their skid with homework. 

She said she does this because she wants him to get good grades, in order to eventually one day go to college/get a good job and get out of her house LOL

It got me thinking.. And I realised I actually do stuff for SS5 like that too. That seems to be for him, but is *actually* for me!!

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