So the story is: I say story because this is what dh told me.
That BM called him last night, I was out with my bios, so dont know. BM stated that SD8's thursday night t-ball game will probably be rescheduled for saturday, dh's weekend.

BM stated she was just letting him so because HE MUST take her to tball. DH told BM he had plans with the girls SD11 and SD8. DH also told BM that he didn't have the money to spend the gas to drive 1hr 45 minutes to get them, drive back out on saturday and then out again on sunday. BM apparently was throwing her 450lbs around and telling DH what he was going to do.

DH said if you want SD8 to go, you can pick her up, take her and bring her back to me. BM said he would have to give her gas money. What a dumbass, isn't that what DH said he didn't have money for? DH told BM he wasn't paying her anything.

BM then decided to threaten DH with DCSE(child support svcs), saying she knows he's gotten a raise since 2008 and gets overtime, so she'll just have them investigate him and he'll have to pay back support. DCSE has NEVER did the 3 year review on DH's case. DH told her to go ahead because he has a child at home that he will inform DCSE of and ask for the standard deduction. Which legally he can do?

BM's response: You can't do that? DH's: yes I can it says so on their website. So then BM says, you need to pay 50/50 on medical expenses. DH says to BM, the kids are on govt insurance and you pay no out of pocket medical expenses. What does the lovely brain dead BM say? You have to give me gas money to take them to the doctor? Is this woman stuck on stupid or what?

No where in the legal definition of 50/50 of unreimbursed medical expenses, does it state - GAS MONEY. So DH told her, I'm not paying you anything BM, PERIOD the end. BM then turns to SD8 and says "your dad doesn't want you to play tball" to which SD8 starts balling. WOW BM, great parenting.

Then BM says to DH, see you made your daughter cry. So DH tells BM, put SD8 on the phone. SD8 gets on the phone. DH says SD8- do you want to go play ball or come see daddy? (ugh hate when he talks like a baby but whateves) SD8 says "both". DH told SD8, it doesn't work that way, you get one or the other.

So I have no idea if the skids are showing up, honestly if SD8 is going to whine, I hope she stays with BM. We can't afford to drive 1.45 hours 4 times in one weekend so SD8 can play tball that BM signed her up for without consulting DH.

These BM's are total idiots. Yes BM can ask for a 3 year review, go ahead BM, because DH will be asking for a decrease based on our child, which is legal. BM won't do anything but convince SD8 and SD11 that they need to stay with her because Daddy & SM are so horrible.

Whatever crazy biotch, whatever.