I feel horrible saying this but I am dreading my fiance's son coming over today. The reason why I feel bad is b/c he's only four. I always thought I was jealous of him and maybe that's why I hate when he comes around but my fiance still has a relationship with his ex's other son (not his biological child) and I think he is an awesome kid!! We've been together for almost two years now and I still haven't warmed up to him. He just isn't a lovable kid to me. I think what annoys me most is that he is kind of a rude kid. I have always instilled manner in my kids b/c it's important to me.