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Help me not go back to him..

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Submitted by sandra.c on Mon, 08/11/2014 - 1:24pm

Hi y'all. I posted a few weeks ago about breaking up with my boyfriend. We did then but kinda let it rest for a few days and it seemed as though we were still together. Last night I started the conversation again and now we are on breakup #2. I know its natural to feel scared after a breakup, but I am SO nervous. I'm worried I'm making a mistake and will regret it. I know I'll miss him. Please, any words of encouragement? Thanks so much.

Well, we are breaking up

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Submitted by sandra.c on Mon, 07/28/2014 - 1:35pm

So last night we got in a huge blowout fight that ended with him packing his shit. He is still at the apartment right now and I don't know what to do. Since I have such a hard time letting go, I know there is a possibility that we will just ignore this and move on together. I think I want the split to stick though and I'm feeling really guilty about that.

Brand new & need advice!

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Submitted by sandra.c on Sat, 07/26/2014 - 2:24pm

Hi all. I am new here and could really use some words of wisdom. Background info: late twenties, in a 2 year relationship with someone who has a toddler. We live together and my ss stays with us a few days a week. Many of our past issues involved bm, his and her boundaries, typical stuff around here. He also cheated on me with her in the beginning of our relationship, so it's made everything a million times harder. Now, everything is pretty smooth NOW, except I'm starting to have more and more doubts.