So many SM's on here despise or dont look forward to their skids visiting. I read more often of negative situations regarding the kids relationships with the smoms than the other way around. My only issue is i argue with my hubby over stuff regarding my ss and the bm. and of course the bm is crazy and causes issues daily. If i hated or disliked my ss i would have left. but my ss has my heart and will always have my heart. When he is sick, he wants me. If he has a bad dream he wants me. We read a book together every night before bed.

So, almost on a weekly basis, sometimes more The BM decides she is going to call my hubby with a complaint about me. Its never anything true, normal, accurate. It is soooo frustrating and annoying. My husband handles it well. Tries to ignore it as much as possible but it infuriates me in the worst way. They are things like- I took too many pictures of her son at an event. I stood too close to her at an event. I shouldn't be at an event. "Its only for my SS parents" she will even complain to my hub about my family being involved in my SS life. There are so many more examples.