It's so nice to find yet another stepmom kinda forum. Reading forums and blogs have been my savior lately. Life being married to someone who has a kid from previous marriage is not easy. When I met my husband and knew about this, I didn't think twice about being with him. I thought that the only thing important is that we love each other. I didn't know it was going to be difficult. As of now, we only have my SS14 on weekends and most days on holidays. The more SS14 grows up, the more it's becoming difficult. I don't have a bond at all with him.